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#1386 From JAX to Indy

Stephanie uses a Mobi pump and has had type 1 for 26 years.

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Scott Benner 0:00
Welcome back, friends to the Juicebox Podcast.

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Stephanie Reiner 2:28
I'm Stephanie Reiner, and I was diagnosed with type one diabetes when I was 20 years old, which was July 5, 1998,

Scott Benner 2:37
9002 1008. 18, and then, like, what? Seven? Almost 626. Years? Are you 46

Unknown Speaker 2:45
Yep, I'll be 47 the end of

Scott Benner 2:47
the year. Me. So what happened? Fireworks, scare you gave you diabetes,

Speaker 1 2:53
right? No, I, I went to Wales on spring break in college that year, and everyone on the trip got sick with some sort of respiratory flu type thing, and no one was diagnosed with anything, and it just lingered. I graduated college early at 20 and was excited. I booked a international tour to be a vocal soloist and the dance captain, and then that was for the fall, and then for the next spring, I was supposed to tour the US singing and acting, and so I just needed to fill the summer. So I went to work at a summer camp in a very small town in Indiana, which I'm from Florida. So I knew nothing of Indiana. That week, I started getting sick, but that week, they made us work in the kitchen, and I discovered it was grade D. Government donated meat. So I was like, this might be why I'm and a friend from Florida had also gone, and he was getting sick too. But then by that Friday, I slept for like 20 hours straight, got up, went to dinner with them, went back to bed, and then Fourth of July, went to a party at someone else's house. Then we went to a concert as I was going to the concert, I hit my head getting into the car, so I had a massive headache. I remember being really thirsty, so I got like an icy because none of the drinks sounded good to me, so lots of sugar. And then I slept through the entire outdoor rock concert. So I slept through the Fourth of July, and then when I woke up on the fifth I could barely walk and was sick, and the previous day's dinner came up the same way, smelling the same way. So my digestive system apparently had already shut down. I was driven to an acute care place where they wouldn't give I was just like, can I please have water or ice? And they were like, we don't have ice. And then me, with a swollen tongue, who can barely talk, proceeded to read them the riot act about as an acute care clinic. They're required to have ice because of the nature of the injuries they deal with. Because I had worked at acute care clinic a

Scott Benner 4:52
previous summer, that's where you went,

Speaker 1 4:55
Yeah. And I'm like, Look, if I can't have ice, I can't have ice. But don't tell me you don't have ice. And all of that's where the. Swollen tongue. So I'm sure it was very easily understood, by

Scott Benner 5:04
the way, had we cooked your tongue? It maybe smoked it for a couple of hours at 225 degrees, it would have been better than that meat you were eating in the cafeteria.

Speaker 1 5:11
Yeah, it was bad. That was about it. They were like, you can have something after you see the doctor. So they gave me water, which you should never give to someone who's that dehydrated that their tongue is swollen, so like, what popsicles I had taken down came right back up, and then they had me get on the phone with my parents, who were in Florida, and I'm just so lethargic and my tongue is swollen that I'm like, I don't even want to talk to them, and I'm like, whatever. I just need to sleep. You guys talk to the doctor. So they decide that I should go to the ER, and I'm still like, if you just let me sleep, I'll be fine until we got to the ER, and there's a nurse waiting outside with a wheelchair. They take me back into a room. There's six nurses and a doctor waiting on me, and they immediately start to work, and I'm like, I'm going to die. They don't care if I have insurance or if I can pay because all these people are waiting. And they immediately started working. And that's when I knew it was serious. I had a really bad headache, and it was my heartbeat was elevated all the what I know now is classic DKI symptoms, but as someone who's danced my whole life and I played a couple of RC sports and intramurals in college, they were telling me that I had too good of muscle tone to be a type one diabetic. And, yeah, yeah, exactly, yeah. What? What type of I

Scott Benner 6:33
mean, you've had diabetes for a long time now. Do you see any correlation between that? No, not at all. But listen, I think it's such a you're not going to say a more damning thing in this entire conversation. Maybe, maybe you will then I knew I was sick when they didn't ask me if I could pay for this.

Speaker 1 6:48
Yeah, that's when it got serious. So they did. They did a spinal tap and they did a CAT scan, all because they knew my blood sugar was elevated. But they were looking for other causes, and they couldn't find another cause. So after several hours in the ER, they moved me up to an ICU, and they decided that I'm so dehydrated that they have to do a central line. But they've never done that on anyone who was conscious, so they are a little nervous, and they keep asking me questions like, what's today's date, and who's the president? Why you have a Florida driver's license. Why are you in Indiana? So, like, my medical records have this whole paragraph about how I just graduated from UF with a degree in psychology and blah, blah, blah, blah, and I was supposed to go on tour, and I'm in town working at this camp and all this type of stuff. And then it's like a patient is amazingly co parent, according to body chemistry, she should be unconscious. So they made,

Speaker 2 7:39
hey, who was the president in 98

Unknown Speaker 7:43
I don't remember. I'm

Scott Benner 7:45
testing your recollection of the moment, not of the President. That's all, yeah, I

Speaker 1 7:49
don't Yeah. I haven't read my medical records in decades. But then they want me to sign a release, basically that, you know, if they kill me doing a central line, it's not my fault. But I'm so out of it and exhausted that I'm like, signing instead of using my hand, I'm like, using my shoulder to move my arm, because I'm just I don't have it in my muscles. And then I look at my signature, and it looks nothing like my signature. So I started laughing, and they all get relieved, and they look at me, they're like, what's so funny? And they're like, talking to me like, I'm five years old. And they're waiting for me to be like, there's purple elephants dancing on your head, you know, because it means I'm about to pass out, and instead, I'm like, well, that doesn't look anything like my signature. So if you kill me, I don't know that that would stand up in a court of law.

Scott Benner 8:28
They're just like, if this girl would just pass out, we could give her this line, yeah, not

Speaker 1 8:32
appreciate that. So then they basically, they're like, Okay, you have to take a deep breath and bear down and don't breathe again, because we're going to do a central line where we go through the muscles of your chest straight into your heart, if you move, you can create an air bubble that would go directly into your heart and kill you immediately.

Scott Benner 8:50
Wait, I could? I feel like you could. I don't want to sign that. Give me that back, right, right?

Speaker 1 8:54
So that's what I did. They just numb. They did a topical numbing. And then you feel everything else, and you just take a deep breath and hold they got the central line in, and then this was a teaching hospital, and this poor resident, I don't know what he was, intern, whatever comes up, and the doctor had sent him to get me a popsicle, because that's all I had been asking for the whole time I was there. And he comes back and he's like, we don't, she can't have a sickle. We don't have any sugar free popsicles in the whole hospital. I've been any names all the floors he's been to. And

Scott Benner 9:26
the doctor on the first floor, I've been third floor. I was on the fifth floor, exactly.

Speaker 1 9:30
And the doctor just looked at him and was and read him the riot act, like, up one side and down the other. He's like, I don't care if it has sugar, it doesn't have sugar. Do you see what we just did to her? We're gonna put her on an insulin drip anyway, get her a popsicle. I don't care what type it is like. So then I wound up in ICU, and by this time, the people who worked at the camp and my friends and all the other counselors were all like waiting outside, so they let three of them come in. At that point, it was already after visiting hours. Hours, but they let them come in, and they're all just like, staring at me. And when all this happened, I didn't know at the time, but my friend from Florida got like, had gone to buy me popsicles and took it back to the camp. And as he gets to the camp, the guy who leads the camp was leaving and was like, why are you here? Stephanie's in the hospital. So they turn around and come back to the hospital. He walks in the ER, as the doctor comes out and goes, Look,

Scott Benner 10:24
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Speaker 1 12:43
we don't know if she's going to make it. If there's anybody you should call, you should go ahead and call them now.

Scott Benner 12:48
Your friend who's on a popsicle run was told you weren't going to make it. Maybe, yeah, when

Speaker 1 12:51
he walked into the ER, that's what the doctor told them. And there's like, you start, should start calling people. So he's the only one who actually, like, knows me. Stephanie,

Scott Benner 13:00
contextualize this again, you're in what state and where is your family?

Speaker 1 13:04
My family's in Florida, and this has happened. I am Indiana, Indiana, okay, and this guy who he and I sang in a touring ensemble together and stuff like that, he was working, we happened to choose the same summer camp, which literally is what saved my life, that we chose the same summer camp, and so because he's the one who found me that next morning when I couldn't move, he had gone to get popsicles, was sent back to the hospital, he walks in to the ER gathering with the other people from camp. When the doctor comes out and says, we don't know if she's going to make it or not, you should start calling people. So he starts calling all of our friends in Gainesville. He does not have my parents number, so he does not call them. And then one of the girls who was in a touring ensemble with us calls my parents, and she's hysterical, and she's like, I'm so sorry. Is there anything I can do? And my parents are like, they have no idea why she's so upset, because they talked to the doctor at the acute care clinic who made it sound like it wasn't any big deal, and I would be fine. Yeah. Then they get a call a little while later from the ER doc, who says scale of one to 10, Tim being fatal. We don't know if she's a nine or a 10. You need to get here tonight. So they immediately tried to book flights. There was a flight out of Jacksonville through Atlanta, but it wouldn't get to they would miss a connection in Atlanta and they wouldn't make it to Indiana. There was a flight out of Orlando that they could take, but summer of 98 was very dry in Florida, and we had massive wildfires that the smoke had shut down I 95 so they couldn't get to Orlando either. So they drove the like 14 hours across country, not knowing if I was going to be alive or dead. And that was like 98 when people didn't really have cell phones like that, and cars still sucked, right? Yeah, okay, yeah. So they got there the next morning, and I was conscious, and I. Could talk a little bit, but I was just very weak. And so I was in ICU for a couple days, in a regular room for a couple days, and then they dismissed us. The Diabetes training was awful. I had some lady who was much older than my grandmother talking to me about, you know, doing a syringe and an orange because it feels the same. And then she wanted me to poke her and give her a saline shot before I gave myself a saline shot. And I'm like, yeah, no, I'm I, I will give it to myself. They hired some

Scott Benner 15:32
old lady who's a masochist. They're like, she's like, give me a shot, please. Orange,

Speaker 1 15:36
a couple shots, but I'm not going to give you a shot, lady. And and my skin feels very different than your skin, you know, because of collagen, yeah, so it both feel the same. And I definitely don't want to, like, leave a massive bruise on some random lady. So because I've been pushing through an orange then my mom, my dad, and my dad, once he found out I was going to be alive, your

Scott Benner 15:59
dad was like, I wasted this trip. I took a day off from work go back to Florida

Speaker 1 16:03
because my sister is, my sister's three and a half years younger than me, and so she was, like, in high school at the time, and so she was, like, staying with my grandmother. So my dad flew back, and then mom had to drive me back, and so she was begging them to, like, discharge us from the hospital early in the morning because we had a really long drive. And drive. And of course, we were discharged, you know, in the early afternoon instead. And I had to, like, lay down the entire trip home, because my eyes were rehydrating, so everything was going in and out of focus and was blurry, and it just, it was awful. So I couldn't really help, I couldn't help her drive, and she's looking at a 14 hour drive. I had to go back to school for insurance purposes, so that it because this is before insurance reform. So I went back to school. Just went to community college so that the summer was a quote, unquote summer off, and would still be covered by insurance versus diabetes, forever being pre existing never covered. Oh

Scott Benner 16:57
yeah, you had to keep you, had to keep yourself insured consistently so that you didn't have to go look for insurance again as a type one.

Speaker 1 17:04
Yep. So then I had to bail on the international tour that I had booked and the national tour because they would not allow type one diabetics. What kind of tour at the time, music were you singing? It's like a Broadway style for the international tour. I was going to tour US, Canada, Great Britain and Europe as their dance captain and a vocal soloist. They had never had anyone do that. So we're actually rewriting the roles and the entrances and exits to make it work for me. And then I had to call and be like, Thanks for rewriting it. But I have type one diabetes now, and I have to go back to school.

Scott Benner 17:36
Geez. Yeah, any other diabetes in your family or other autoimmune my

Speaker 1 17:41
dad's side has type two, nothing with type one. I had never even met a type one, and actually, I did not meet another type one for a couple years after being diagnosed, I didn't know of any on my mom's side, my mom did have low thyroid whenever she was pregnant with me, and because of my relationship with an endo later, she wound up on thyroid meds. There's not really any auto immune there. What you always ask is bipolar. I do have a relative who has bipolar, but otherwise nothing, no

Scott Benner 18:16
other auto immune stuff. Yeah. Also, we should be clarifying for people who don't, like, listen, like, like, Bipolar is not autoimmune, but it is very, uh, inflammation related, which is why I always ask about stuff. Plus I ask because so many people come on here, anecdotally, yeah, who have a bipolar relative, and I'm just like, at this point now, I'm like, anybody. I'm so stunned every time someone's like, Well, my uncle, I'm like, jeez, yeah. Crazy. Speaking of crazy, Arden has been getting her diabetes supplies from us med for three years. You can as well us med.com/juice, box, or call 888-721-1514, my thanks to us med for sponsoring this episode and for being long time sponsors of the Juicebox Podcast. There are links in the show notes and links at Juicebox podcast.com, to us, med and all the sponsors. WILLIAM JEFFERSON, Clinton was the president 98 actually, this, this happened to you pretty much in the middle of the model. Lewinsky. Lewinsky, yeah, yes, that whole scandal, that's crazy. Kept saying popsicles. And I was like, I don't know, like I want to call your episode popsicles, my gosh, so you've had, well, I do want to go back a little bit. So you had to go back to school, but you went locally. It sounds like I,

Speaker 1 19:33
actually, I went back to school in Gainesville, where UF is, because I had been involved in the community there, and there was a dance studio I was teaching at and stuff like that. So, yep, so I went back to community college there, and I basically just took, like, dance and drawing and psychology classes. Do you still do those things? Yeah, I'm a choreographer, and I dance and sing and act professionally. Occasionally. Uh,

Scott Benner 20:01
professionally, occasionally, well, what

Speaker 1 20:03
that means is, I don't, that's I have professional contracts that I do, and it's just for one show, and then I don't necessarily pick up another contract to perform for a while. It has to be something I really want to do to disrupt my entire life. I see for it, because it's eight shows a week, it's

Scott Benner 20:19
just such a fun statement professionally occasionally, yeah.

Speaker 1 20:23
And then, like I do choreo, I'm paid to be a choreographer, and I, depending on the year, I can choreograph anywhere from two to six productions, okay? And then, since insurance reform happened, I no longer have to, like, work corporate, and then quit and go on COBRA for a year and a half before going back to corporate to be on a group insurance plan since that reform I tutor math and chemistry middle school through college. Oh, awesome. That's excellent, yeah, so it allows me a lot of flexibility. Yeah. Are you married? Do you have kids? I just got engaged a week and a half ago? Oh, congratulations.

Scott Benner 21:01
Yeah, no, kids, yeah. Well, look at you being an adult. Are you still in contact with the kid that found you?

Speaker 1 21:09
Not really. I mean, we are Facebook friends. It's not someone that I talk to regularly. You

Scott Benner 21:15
don't get a message every once a while, like, remember that time I saved your life? Yeah,

Speaker 1 21:19
no. It's more like every time July 5 comes around, someone from that camp will talk about, you know, how their life was forever changed, not knowing if I was going to live or die. Type of post happens, and then we all get tagged in it

Scott Benner 21:35
over the day Stephanie just disappeared. Remember the day that

Speaker 1 21:38
Stephanie went in the hospital, and then she wasn't at camp for the next month, and so we didn't have someone to teach drama or to sing.

Scott Benner 21:45
Oh No, kidding. Everything changed for this so everything, really, I mean, changed for you a lot more. But yes, okay, so throughout this time, it's a long time you've had diabetes, I don't know. I think I want to know about the shift between technology. I'd like to know what you've had to do to keep yourself healthy. You know, what are some of the like, rear view mirror things that you can look back on and say, These are the things I wish people knew about,

Speaker 1 22:13
yeah, when I was diagnosed, then they proceeded to give me, you know, like an exchange diet type of thing, where you I had to get up at eight o'clock and I had to take this mix of regular and NPH insulin, and I had to eat this many grams of carb, this many grams of protein, this much fat, this much fruit and blah, blah, blah, and on and on. And then at a certain time, I had to eat lunch, because that's when the insulin was going to hit, Ready or not, and there were certain things I had to eat. Then I had a choice. Around three o'clock in the afternoon, I could do a snack and eat dinner later, or I could plan to eat dinner earlier, and that would be a shift in my dose according to what I chose. It was not convenient that that shift happened right before, like a jazz class. So I'm like, shoving peanut butter crackers in my mouth to be able to go dance, and then I was required to, you know, eat a yogurt or something like that before I went to sleep. Every night, as a 20 year old, I would have to get up at eight o'clock every day, regardless as to whether it was the weekend or not, because of my insulin. It was difficult dating because it's like, Hey, I we need to go eat at this specific time. And these are the things that I need to eat, which, by the way, doesn't line up with any single menu item. So it's like, I'll take this entree and then I also need this side with this and this. And so I tried to follow it pretty exacting, but it was the most frustrating thing. And I had no hunger signals anymore, unless I was going low really fast and would shake.

Scott Benner 23:54
Is that because you were eating so frequently, you think,

Speaker 1 23:58
or like, hunger signals? Yeah, yeah. I have no idea, like, it got to where they'd be like, well, what are you hungry for? And I'm like, that. She said, I'm not hungry. I'm eating because I'm required to eat. I no longer, like, craved a pizza or a burger or something like that. From time to time. Has that

Scott Benner 24:12
gone away or changed? No, no. Arden talks about that, yeah,

Speaker 1 24:16
no, not at all. So it's the type of thing where it might be once every three or four months, and I'm like, Oh, I just really want a burger. And if I'm I've already planned to go out with friends and they're getting something else that's great. You can get whatever you want, but I'm gonna go to this place and I'm gonna get a burger and then I'll meet you, because I try to, like, reinforce the hunger signals that I have, yeah?

Scott Benner 24:35
But you try to, you try to pay your body back for telling you

Speaker 1 24:38
something like, yeah, thank you for actually communicating. Let's continue this. Here's the cheeseburger

Scott Benner 24:42
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Speaker 1 24:46
that's right, no more government. Government donated junk. I, by the way,

Scott Benner 24:50
I have to tell you, I looked into it. The the D rating is not how they grade beef. But still, I like, I like the visual. Wait a minute. Hold on, I have a question. So you were like, as a young person, following this super strict schedule, and you were actually following it, right? So to the detriment of what it sounds like is your personal life and perhaps some of your happiness, but you followed it. Did it pay you back? Were you getting the health results that that you wanted?

Speaker 1 25:18
I didn't even know. Like what the health results goals were like when I came back to Indy, to Jax from Indy, I met with an indo and it was not good. Like, the first thing she said is, like she ranted to me about how I could never get pregnant until I had had a normal a 1c for at least nine months. And she literally meant a normal, as in, not diabetic, a 1c which, like in the fours, yeah, like in the Force to blow five, which I'll let you know when I had that. And she just went off about it, and then she turned around. She's like, look, we want diabetes to exercise, but dance is a very unpredictable exercise, so we're going to need to figure out something else for you. And I just stopped her there, and I go, Okay, let's just start again. I said, I'm Stephanie. I have diabetes. Diabetes does not have me. I dance. So you're going to have to find a way to make it work. And because I bucked up and kind of talked back basically, and was like, No, this is what I need. That's why I got the approval to go to school in Gainesville, because I had to have an endo sign off for me to be that far away. It's only an hour and a half away. She was like, as long as you come back every month and a half, I'm every three months, then I'm fine with you going to Gainesville. Wait, diabetes

Scott Benner 26:34
was changed. Was impacting your ability to move around the country if you

Speaker 1 26:38
wanted to. Yeah, within some of the insurance stuff, yes, oh, my God,

Scott Benner 26:43
that's, that's all crazy. You're old. No, I'm just kidding. I know

Speaker 1 26:50
I'm still here, yeah, so, but then I didn't get really education about, like, what insulin does and that type of I just knew you take this and that. So it was the type of thing where, if I went to a party and I wanted ice cream, I didn't have an intelligent way to dose for that, and so I would just randomly dose, and all I had was regular and NPH, and I would just dose for ice cream and not know if it was going to work or not work. And really had no idea that I could kill myself with insulin.

Scott Benner 27:20
I'm so stunned by that idea of that you didn't even know what your goals were. No, did you ever watch that TV show? Lost? You're old. You probably saw it. Yes, you remember they had to push the button. Yeah, totally. It feels like that. Yes, yeah. It just like, do this thing, and you're like, Okay, I'll, you know, I'm 20, but I'll go to, I'll go to the early bird special at 4pm and have dinner then, and, like, not eat anything and only eat this and blah, blah, blah. Why am I? But you didn't know. So you're doing this thing over and over and over again, but you don't know why. That seems very frustrating to me. It was

Speaker 1 27:57
incredibly frustrating. Like, all I and all I knew was about type two diabetes, and like all the complications that can happen because of type two and that's all that I knew. I mean, JDRF existed, but they did not do anything. There was no first diagnosis support or anything like that, where you were no and I think part of it also is because I was diagnosed in Indiana, and then I moved back to Florida. She

Scott Benner 28:21
weren't grounded anywhere, really, either, right? Yeah, I just talked to a guy in his 70, like, a 76 year old guy, and he credits JDRF for really helping him, because when they first started, it was the first time that you could get information that wasn't like at the library, right? And he was like, he's like, that really changed my life. So it would have been nice to have some information as well for you, but I just think I'm gonna go back to this for half a second, then I'm gonna let it go. But I want everyone listening. I don't want to break the fourth wall in our conversation. But wonder about how many things diabetes or not, you're doing every day, and you have no idea why you're doing them. I just think it's a deep question to look at yourself and say, How many things am I just automatically doing that I maybe don't even need to be doing, or could be doing differently or better, or maybe don't even know at all why it's happening. I just, I think it's an, it's an important thing to examine once in a while. But yeah, yeah, for sure. Okay, so you're out there with your ice cream, just winging it. Does this go well, mostly? Or Yeah, it did,

Speaker 1 29:25
yeah, it went pretty well. Yeah. It was a frustration. And you know, I would get gigantic black bruises where I had nicked a vein or artery or whatever. You

Scott Benner 29:36
should have stuck the lady in the hospital. You would have learned,

Speaker 1 29:38
well, can't help it when you hit a blood vessel, which you know is more noticeable when you live in Florida and you go to the beach all the time and that type of a thing. But you were rejecting a lot. You're saying, Yeah, well, I only, and there was no pump option for me at that time. And then so that was like a year, and I taught dance, and I and I. Went to community college, and then I got a job back in Jacksonville, where I was a part time administrator for an arts institution, and then I taught drama and dance there so that it wound up being full time between all the hours, so that I qualified for their insurance. And that made me switch to Mayo in Jacksonville, and that endo told me, because I was asking about a pump, he told me not to even consider it that the pumps were not good enough and diabetes would be cured in five years. That was back when you were 20 that was when I was 21 Yeah, that was a 99 Okay, yeah, you know, and so I'm, I'm testing my blood sugar tons. And you know, anytime that I'm dancing, I'm testing before I'm dancing, and then if I feel shaky during dancing, you know, I would check it. But really, for the most part, like I was probably coasting a little high and didn't know any better, didn't know kind of what goals I should have pre and post exercise and that type of thing. Because basically they just looked at my numbers, like, yeah, you're doing fine. And by doing fine probably meant that I was like, 6.8 to 7.2 on a 1c Yeah, with no CGM and no

Scott Benner 31:13
pump and back then, no idea if you're like, bouncing up and down or anything like that. Right?

Speaker 1 31:17
Standard Deviation doesn't exist into that. And then I moved to Dallas Fort Worth. I dance part time with a professional dance company, and then I was also working corporate, and my indo in Dallas was phenomenal, and they were involved in a ton of research. And so literally, the day or day after that, the 24 hour insulin and short acting insulin became approved in the US I had it. When was that? That was like, in 2001

Scott Benner 31:50
ish, only three years until the the cure. So you were probably right. Did you actually live thinking that that, oh, this will be over in five years? No, okay, because,

Speaker 1 32:00
and that's more of a personality thing, it's like, I can't, like, I'm not banking on anything right out there, as you know, a constantly moving target, like I'm doing the best that I can with what I have right now to set myself up for what I want to do. And so a lot of it was fighting against the current of, no, I still want to perform, I still want to dance. I still want to have that option. Because everything that they wanted me to do, from from an endocrinologist appointment was, please, just have lived the same life every day and like it was a Groundhog Day is was the solution, so that your life is completely predictable. And I'm like, That's great. That does not work for me. Personality wise. I like things that are spontaneous and changing and shifting, and I like that energy and interaction, and so I want to have that flexibility, besides the fact that, yes, I dance and do choreography, and sometimes, if I'm teaching a class, I'm dancing the whole time, and sometimes I'm teaching a class, I'm dancing very little, and I'm just doing small corrections. And yes, that is more difficult to manage, but it's what it's worth it for me, and I want to do it. And so that has been a big part of the fight throughout, is to to have flexibility built in to my diabetes management. And so I had to, you know, push against endos. That endo was great. Unfortunately, a year later, well, so I guess that was around 2000 because then 911 happened, and the company I was with went through layoffs, and I went in the third wave of layoffs. So it's like it was on my one year anniversary with the company I had uprooted my whole life and moved to Dallas Fort Worth, and I was there. And so I went on COBRA, which is very expensive, and I continued to do choreography and that type of thing and look for work. And I, in the meantime, I made a dance company, and we danced in Dallas Fort Worth for a while. We toured that next summer. We toured Florida for six weeks, and we went and danced in Norway for 10 days. And then I went back and got a corporate job because Cobra was ending, and I did recruiting. And then I went into purchasing management. And with that insurance, it required a different endo who I had a string of some bad endos in Dallas, Fort Worth. One messed up some medication so bad that they, like, took it out of my record, because it could have killed me, and I don't even remember what it was anymore. Sorry for that little tidbit, just to tease you with and then be like, I don't even know what it was. Um, so I changed doctors. I had found this great one, and he was phenomenal. And then he got stomach cancer, and he had to quit his pack practice. The lady who took over, like proceeded to berate me every time I went in and tell me how, you know I was killing myself, and I was doing this, and I was doing but there was no education that went with it. Trust me, I met with diabetes educators, and they're like, you know how? You know what to eat, and you know what this is, so you're doing fine. The lady her her way. Was to scare and intimidate people, and it was so bad that they, like, they had me go out the back door so that no one in the lobby would see my face, because I had been so angry, like, I cry when I'm angry, and my whole face was red. So they didn't charge me for that. They didn't want record of it. But they pushed out the valley, yeah, pushed me out the back door. They're like, dance away. Stephanie, yep, so and then around, I don't know it's like, 2003 2004 I wound up in the hospital with DKA. I didn't know that insulin that like, I should look at my insulin closely and know that it's not cloudy like, and that type of like, it had been kept it wasn't, it was a new vial, but the vial I got was cloudy, and I didn't know any different, like, I took it into the hospital. So, like I was I went into DKA, but I was treating myself repeatedly, and it wasn't coming down. So when I went in, unfortunately, this hospital typically deals with type twos, and I'm in the ICU, and then internist comes in. He's, you know, treating him, whatever. And then they go to give me a meal, but they're only they give me insulin, and then I eat, and I go to bed, whatever. And then they they check my insulin, my levels, before I go to bed for the night. The next morning, they're checking it, and I realized that, because my blood sugar is okay, they're not going to give me insulin for my meal, but they want me to eat breakfast. And I'm like, No, I can't eat breakfast without insulin. Like, I knew that much. And they're like, No, you have to. And I'm like, No, you don't understand. I can't. And so they're like, it's doctor's orders. Blah, blah is like, Well, I'm not going to eat. And I just, I was like, I'm not going to eat if you won't give me insulin. So then the doctor comes in. He's mad because I have threatened his authority. I don't know. I'm non compliant, clearly, so I literally drew a picture for him. I'm like, okay, so I eat. I eat. Here's the simple carbs, are in and out in an hour. Here's the complex carbs, they're in and out in two hours. Here's your fat and protein. They're hitting about four hours. They stay till about six and then they're tapering off. This is why you want to balance meals, so that you have balanced blood sugar. I was like, however, was like, however, I don't release any insulin to combat this. This is why I need insulin. And he went off, and he was angry, and he's telling and so mind you, at the time, I was primarily dancing, and so he goes off and tells me that the reason I'm in there is because I'm out partying and drinking every night. And he just went on this tirade about, clearly, you know, a a young to mid, 20 something year old woman, that's all she does, you know, and she's not taking care of her body, which, as a dancer, that doesn't quite work. I just looked at him and I said, you're fired. I said, I'll take another doctor

Scott Benner 37:39
so, but yeah, I have to tell you. Like, it's incredibly common to hear from younger people that someone just takes the leap and goes, oh, you know you're struggling or whatever, because you're out partying all the time. Like, were you out partying

Speaker 1 37:52
all the time? No, no, I wasn't. I didn't even drink it's so funny.

Scott Benner 37:57
It happens constantly. Like, you know what it almost is like, like, you know how you kids are like, Oh, great. Just lump me in with everybody. That's fantastic. I

Speaker 1 38:03
told him, it's like, no, I'm I'm a dancer, like, I cannot do that like and and perform well. And he just continued. So I said, Okay, you're fired. So then a little while later, another internist came in, rather hesitantly, like I was going to throw something at him, and clearly had been told I was non compliant. He's like, Well, why don't you tell me what the problem is? And so I showed him. I'm like, here's the graph I just showed this guy, and this is why I won't eat breakfast if you won't give me insulin, because the only normal blood sugar I will have during my hospital stay is in the morning you're going to keep feeding

Scott Benner 38:36
me. Did that help? Did the second person go, oh, okay, hold on, let's get you some insulin.

Speaker 1 38:40
No, you know what he said? He's like, wow. You know this better than we do. We pre we primarily teach type twos. He goes, so why don't we do this? I'll get your body chemistry in order, and you manage your blood sugar. I'll give you, I'll let you dose your own insulin. And then that's when we saw that. It was cloudy. And he's like, we need to get you new insulin. I didn't know because I was like, it was a new vial that came from the pharmacy, but at least you found a reasonable person. Found a reasonable absolutely and so then he's like, Okay, once we get, once I get your potassium leveled out, he's like, I'll write you a note for work that says that you need to be on bed rest for a week, and then that you do half days for the week after that. But he pretty much, he's like, we don't we don't know how to treat type ones. We treat Type twos primarily.

Scott Benner 39:20
I'd like to get a script for bed rest for a week. You think the guy that makes this podcast would let me go? I want to, I'd like a week off. That sounds awesome. So okay, so you found a reasonable person you get your cloudy insulin fixed, etc. That good. That's awesome. These kind of things continue to happen through life with diabetes. Or does it change as you like. Do you find yourself in the hospital over and over again as the years go by? No.

Speaker 1 39:45
The only other time I was in the hospital was a was shortly after I went on the pump with a bent cannula, okay? And that was the only time, and that was an easy fix.

Scott Benner 39:53
Listen, it's an interesting look at what it was like back then. And, yeah, I think because you fought back. And had a tiny bit of understanding. It's, you know, understanding that it seems like you build on your own. It's not like anybody came along and gave it to you. So I think it saves you, because you weren't even in the like the late 80s, you were like the late 90s, and still everything was janky as could be. I don't know that. It's, I don't know. I mean, the technology is better, the medications are better. I don't know if the on the ground understandings any better, but Right, yeah, you saved yourself. You really did. Because if you would have just listened to them, you'd be in a completely different health situation today. Absolutely. Yeah, yeah. If I, if I wasn't the personality that that advocates for myself, I would have been totally in a different place. Yeah, you have no idea. And do you have any complications today? No, well, good. I'm glad for you. But I mean, it's, it's literally, I know too many people were like, Hey, I did what they told me. And, yeah, absolutely, yeah, yeah. Now let me tell you about what it feels like to get a needle in your eye 1000 times, right, right.

Speaker 1 40:59
So then I moved to Indiana, yeah, and that's where Eli Lilly is, and I had a phenomenal indo there. He asked me if I wanted to be on a pump, and I told him what the mayo doctor had said, like, 10 years earlier. And he's like, no. He's like, we need to get you on a pump. And so he's the first and only indo who advocated strongly for me, and he fought with me against Blue Cross, Blue Shield of Tennessee, and I was the first person that got approved for an insulin pump and CGM. You

Scott Benner 41:27
didn't tell them, I don't need a pump. They died. They cured diabetes five years ago, right? Yeah, I'm all good. Like, did you not hear by the way, I don't know that we've ever truly cured anything, anything. Yeah, we eradicate things, usually through vaccines. When you think about what it means to be cured, like, right? Like, you're talking about, like, there's something wrong with me, and then something else is introduced, and now that thing is not wrong anymore and doesn't come back, right? I mean, I think there's, like, certain kinds of cancers that they can they can completely, like, get out of you, like, but I don't know what people think when they think cure. You know what I mean? Let me ask you a question. If they could stick a packet of cells in you that your immune system couldn't get to, and therefore you didn't need, uh, anti rejection meds, and your body just was like, boom, I don't know. They put in some new beta cells. You're making insulin. You're all good. Are you cured? Or do you just not need man made insulin anymore, because there's a device in you, right?

Speaker 1 42:29
Yeah. You know what I mean, absolutely. Yeah. If you're defining cured as the body being restored to how it originally functioned, that's not happening. If you're talking cured in that I'm not needing a synthetic insulin anymore, that's a different story, right?

Scott Benner 42:46
Yeah, and I'm probably like, I wouldn't, no one would turn their nose up at that. I don't think Correct, yeah, it's just the word is, I don't know. I think it's misunderstood, perhaps, you know, to some degree, commingled with other ideas. You know, if you could eradicate my daughter's type one diabetes, but, you know, she still had the autoimmune issue that, like, put her there. I mean, I think I'd take that as a pretty big win, you know, but it's just, it's funny that, like a doctor said to you, don't worry, this will all just be gone soon,

Speaker 1 43:14
right? Yeah, it's like a magic eraser. Don't worry, everything's fine, yeah, oh my gosh. So he just, he fought with me with insurance, and I got Blue Cross, Blue Shield to give me an insulin pump and a CGM. Before that, I was doing a minimum of eight shots a day to give myself flexibility, to be able to dance and rehearse as well as work corporate and eat when I was hungry or not really hungry. But, you know, close to it, versus just eat on a schedule, so to give myself the most flexibility. And that's why he wanted that's why he helped me get a pump. But the problem is I wound up being allergic to the CGM. It was Medtronic. I was allergic to their original CGM, the one that looks like sliced mushrooms. And they couldn't figure out why, and so I just basically dropped, you know, three to 5000 on a useless something, and then I had the pump. It was great. Unfortunately, once it got approved, he died, but endo and I wound up with his partner who had no bedside manner. He's the one who told me that I would be in this horrible position until I learned to say no to people. And I'm like, I don't think you understand. I'm a purchasing manager. I negotiate multi million dollars deals with Exxon and Dao, and I have no issue speaking my mind and telling people, no, wait, what did he think? You weren't sticking up for? He said that I wasn't prioritizing my health, but he didn't ask me what I did or what I didn't he just it was his typical speech that he gives every single patient I found out, oh, he primarily worked with gestational diabetes, and then he had to take over his partner's patients until they could get somebody else in there. And I told him, I said, well, until you see the patient in front of you, and so the one in your head, I'm not getting anywhere. You're telling me

Scott Benner 44:55
that. Basically, he looks up and goes, diabetes, I'll get. Give them this old chestnut and then tells the story,

Speaker 1 45:02
yes. Ah, there you go. Yeah, yeah. So that was that guy. And then I moved back the Northeast Florida area, which is where I'm from, and have been with the same endo pretty much for the last 1011, years. And really, a lot of it at the beginning was just like, I needed someone who would listen and who would validate and would dialog with me and kind of get over the different trauma of the different people who would yell at me as endos. And I'm like, I don't, but you don't understand that's not what this is. And that was great. Now, since insurance has been pushing back on different scripts and stuff, he would do things off label, but the last three to four years, not so much. And so I don't know how much I will stay with that Endo, because you're doing better than 99% of patients anywhere. You know, my A once I have switched over, once my Medtronic was up for warranty, I switched over to tandem. I was on the freestyle for a while because my Medtronic, you know, wouldn't cooperate with anything. So I just did a FreeStyle Libre. And then just by adding the FreeStyle Libre with the Medtronic pump, I was able to take my ANC from a 6.8 to 7.2 and then it dropped down to more the mid six range, 6.4 to 6.8 and then we went to once that was up, I went to tandems pump, and then with the Dexcom and the basal IQ, and then to control IQ. And with that, then I was pretty much maintaining about a 6.2 without a lot of work, awesome, but a lot of it is, you know, I'm tweaking my settings. He's not. He confirms it. And like every, you know, I he only wants to see me, like, every four to six months, because I'm doing it all. But I'm like, Yeah, but I'm still patient. I would like to have someone to dialog this through with and to look at which ways can we tweak it better. I may be doing better than 99% of the people, but that doesn't mean that I'm doing the best that I can do, because I would love to have as close to normal a 1c levels, provided that I'm not, you know, doing the standard deviation game of dropping down into nothingness. That one fascinates

Scott Benner 47:06
me too. Like, you're like, hey, I have a six, eight. I'd like to do better. And they go. A lot of people in this office have a 10. What does that have to do with me?

Speaker 1 47:14
Exactly. That's what I told him. I was like, I said, I'm still paying you for a session to be my doctor, and that means that you have to You're treating me where I am and taking me to the next place. You

Scott Benner 47:25
got to realize he feels like you're a win. Yeah, exactly. You're checked off the list. You're like, Stephanie done. Don't need to do anything very here's your scripts, honey. Get out of here. Yeah. No, no, that's awesome. What pump do you use? Modern day today? Now

Speaker 1 47:38
I'm on the Moby. I went on that at the beginning of March, my tandem pump went out of warranty in August of 2023 and I really adamantly wanted the Moby. I knew it was going to be coming out, so I refused to sign up for a new one. And they're like, No, you can change over for 1000 bucks. I said, or I can stay with this, and my insurance pays for it, so I'm going to wait you out. And they're like, Well, what if your pump malfunctions? You won't get a warranty. I was like, then I'll switch over to prescription benefits and do Omnipod for a while, and maybe I'll come back to tandem. Maybe I won't

Scott Benner 48:11
just, is that just a sales person or a doctor trying to shake you out of that 1000?

Speaker 1 48:15
Doctor, oh, no, not. Doctor, just tandem is tandem constantly calling me every month about my out of out of war, and I just was honest. I was like, Look, I'm going to continue with my out of warranty pump. I'm not going to have my insurance lock me in to this brick. It's not a brick, but what felt like a brick, because when I'm going to perform on stage, where do I put that that doesn't show in a costume, if I'm dancing or other times with you know, if I'm doing more of a stage play, then where does it go in that so that it's not showing and everything? And so I was like, I don't want it. I want the Moby. Can

Scott Benner 48:48
I ask you? So you wanted a small footprint and but you did, but you wanted to stick with their algorithm, because you could have gone to Omnipod. So you but you will like the tandem algorithm.

Speaker 1 48:59
I like the tandem algorithm. It's also with Omnipod. It is prescription benefit, which is a lot more money for me. Oh, your insurance doesn't cover it as well. Yes, because my insurance, my durable medical, is paid at 100% I

Scott Benner 49:12
see, yeah, so Okay, well, that even makes more sense. So it wasn't as much about like the algorithm, as it was about the cost.

Speaker 1 49:19
I knew the algorithm worked for me. So I was planning. And so I'm good with staying with I would have been fine with trying the Omnipod algorithm had it not been cost prohibitive, comparatively, I understand.

Scott Benner 49:29
Okay, so how long you've been wearing it, since March? Can you tell me a little bit about it? I don't know. You might be the first person I've spoken to who's wearing it. What

Speaker 1 49:36
do you think I love it? I mean, it's the same algorithm is the reality. So there's not a big switch for me in that way. The new option is, obviously, it's literally half the size. It's slightly smaller than an air pod case, carrying case. I personally like the clip that comes with it. Some people have trouble getting it in and out. I don't have that issue. I like that. I. Can put it in a coin pocket of my jeans. I can hook it on my jeans. I can hook it at the center of my bra, and it stays, and it's out of the way and it's not visible, because I don't have to ever touch the pump, because everything is run on my phone. I can tell you that, like, the first month and a half that I had it, I felt like I had this irrational anxiety of I had to have my phone up under me and on and fully charged at all times. I had that little freak out type of a thing, but it's not there anymore. I did have some issues with with bent cannulas, or just poor absorption with the with the five inch tubing, because when you go to insert the five inch tutor tubing, when you pull it back, it's much more stiff than any of the 23 inch tubing, so it's easier to dislodge it, or have it slightly crooked, so that when you go to apply it, it doesn't go in straight, and you wind up with a bent cannula. So on my arm, I like I tried wearing it on my arm with the sleeve, because great. I don't have to worry about where I put it in my clothes, inserting it on your arm by yourself with a five inch that was really tight, pulling back, I had a lot of Ben keynotes. There's a massive learning curve for that. As someone who been using the 23 inch for five years, okay, there was a massive learning because

Scott Benner 51:15
so with the Mobi, for people who maybe don't understand, like, you can do it like on body, right? Like, there's like an adhesive sleeve you could put on and then slide it in, and then just use that short five inch cannula, and then kind of keep everything, the infusion set and the pump right in the kind of the same spot on you, stuck to you, not having to clip it to your clothes. But that shortness of that

Speaker 1 51:37
tubing, is tubing, yeah, not cannula, five inch tubing. Yeah,

Scott Benner 51:41
sorry, sorry. So the shortness of the of the tubing is, like, kind of creating, sometimes, like creating a learning curve where you had to, like, really figure out how to put that in straight without bending the cannula. Yeah? Well, and

Speaker 1 51:52
you're balancing, because you have to balance the Mobi on your arm while you're trying to insert it on your arm, all one handed, because clearly, my elbow doesn't go that way up to hold it. Yeah.

Scott Benner 52:03
So are you wearing it with the adhesive sleeve, or do you prefer the longer tubing and just clip it to your clothing?

Speaker 1 52:10
I use the 23 inch most of the time because it allows me to move the pump to wherever I want for whatever I wear that day. So like, if I'm wearing a dress, then I can just pump it. I can cook it into my bra, in the center on the back, wherever I want, and it stays. And I don't have to worry about it. If I'm wearing shorts or, you know, jeans or whatever, I can hook it on the the waistband of that, or to the pocket of that, and it lets me change it around to I want to put it in the back because, you know, I'm wearing something that's more fitted, and so I'm going to hook it to the back of something that allows me to have the option of whether it's seen or not seen, and how accessible it is by doing the 23 inch. When it's summertime in Florida and I am, there's a water park here in my neighborhood. I'm going to go to the water park, especially when I go with like, my niece and nephew, who are like, five and two and a half. I'm going to be going down the water slides. I wear the sleeve and put the Moby in that, because it is water resistant up to eight feet for up to two hours, which is the same water resistance as Omnipod. There's a lot of people in Moby land who are like, you know, it's not waterproof, so you shouldn't do it, and this that the other it's water resistant. I'm not swimming lap, so I'm not as worried about that. But I have also, in this process of being one of the first 5000 in the US to get it. Have talked with their tech support, and I have answered, I have done some troubleshooting questions with them on their training modules and other things like that. And so as a part of that, in talking with their tech people, the tech people are shocked that people are not just wearing it 24/7 in the shower, in the, you know, in the pool and that type of thing that some people are still hesitant about that water resistance rating. And I just think that's the difference is if, if an Omnipod messes up, you just put on a new pod. If your Moby water resistance messes up, you don't know, waiting for a replacement, yeah, and that's the difference, right? Yeah, then

Scott Benner 54:10
that could scare people away. You said a couple moments ago about like you had a feeling that you needed to keep the phone, like, very close. But does the phone? Is the algorithm not on the phone the

Speaker 1 54:21
pump and my CGM talk to each other, and they work regardless. The app on my phone is my visibility into what the pump is doing, and then it's also my place to go in and enter in carbs, you know, shift into exercise mode and other things like that. Which exercise mode. I have a whole different profile for because just shifting into exercise modes with the same insulin correction factor does nothing, because it'll give you corrections and then you wind up plummeting. I also have a tendency to I like the sleep mode for their algorithm, and pretty much run sleep mode 24/7, so. Because I've dialed in my basal and I've dialed in my carb ratios. So that way, if I if I know if I go shopping, it doesn't matter if it's clothes or groceries or whatever, I drop like a rock. Okay, there is no adrenaline, there's no enjoyment for me, and I drop like a rock with that. So I know that, and so I make sure that I don't get a Bolus, and I want to make sure that I run a little bit higher before heading into that. And if I was running the normal control, IQ versus the sleep mode, it does auto Bolus is when it predicts you're going to go over, like 170 so I tend to go for sleep mode. But just because I don't want to have to pay attention to the auto Bolus is before I say doing life.

Scott Benner 55:45
So if I took your phone and threw it out the window, you couldn't Bolus, right? You couldn't see what was going on.

Speaker 1 55:53
I cannot see I did go ahead. There's a one button on the Moby, and you can use it to snooze alarms, which is really annoying that you can't actually clear alarms on it. Just snooze it. You have to clear it from the app, and that's one of the things I talked to them about their training module. Because for the first 24 hours, I thought I was going to throw the Moby off a bridge because it kept buzzing and I kept clearing it on the pump. But you actually have to, you have to swipe left on the app to clear it, so that it won't snooze and go off again another two minutes. But I can, I programmed it so that if I hold it down, I can micro dose. And basically you can decide, like every time I hold it down, that is equivalent to point one units, or point oh, five units, or point two, five units, whatever you want it to be. And you hold it down, and you do that multiple times, and then it mimics it back to you to confirm what the dosage is, and then it'll give it to you, but that's you just giving the insulin, versus actually entering in like, Hey, this is how many carbs I'm eating and and now I can see what my blood sugar is, and this is what the algorithm is predicting. So you're missing that point without the app, right?

Scott Benner 57:01
But the algorithm is still running, yes, but it can't, but it doesn't know that you had carbs if you had carbs, right? So you can, like, test with a meter, like, so if you left your house forgot your phone, you could test with a meter if you had one, and then Bolus for food based on the if you had the button, program to do something, right?

Speaker 1 57:18
Some people choose not to program that button. I don't know why you wouldn't, but I did that as a part of the setup. Okay, it's a it's an option in your setup.

Scott Benner 57:27
Well, maybe for kids, maybe people don't want to, yeah, have them like being able to just be like, hey, insulin. Insulin,

Speaker 1 57:31
exactly. Yeah, interesting. So you like it? Yes, I do like the size makes the biggest difference in the world. And I know that sound it, it sounds minimal to a lot of people, but when it's literally half the size, and I go from everyone seeing it and crazy people asking me if I have a pager still, that type of thing, to where people don't even notice it, it's a big difference. And for me to be able to perform on stage without necessarily like I don't have any issue with my CGM being seen. I don't have any issue with my pump being seen. I talk to people about it all the time. When you're on stage and it's, you know, something said in the 1800s it might pull them out a bit.

Scott Benner 58:13
Yeah, yeah. So it's nice to be able to hide it if you can. Yeah, yeah. I listen, Arden's been wearing an omnipot since she was four, and I still, like, get stuck on the idea of, like, how do you sleep with the tubing? Like, and I'm sure, obviously, it's very doable, because people do it constantly. It's interesting how, like, whatever you're accustomed to the other normal, yeah, and the other stuff seems like crazy, you know, right?

Speaker 1 58:37
Well, with the five inch tubing, I do generally wear it in a sleeve. I did play around with the five inch tubing on my stomach some and, like, if I was going to go to the bathroom, I would just clip it to the bottom of my T shirt, and then it would stay in place. You can also the Moby is so much lighter that if it dangles from it, it does not pull. Oh, okay, and it's not not a deal. It's not heavy, like the previous like the tandem x2 if, if that came unhooked and dropped, sometimes it could pull my sight off because the weight of it pulling and falling. But with the Moby, that does not, that's never right. Problem.

Scott Benner 59:13
Awesome. It holds 200 units. Is that in a cartridge? Or do you have to fill something?

Speaker 1 59:17
You feel it, you can actually see it on the side. This is better than the x2 and that is kind of an all in one thing, the way that they have you filling it. The downside is that it's very visible. So a lot of people are seeing all the bubbles that happen in every pump when the insulin warms up, and then they are they're worried about clearing bubbles, which is totally valid, but you had that same concern with the other pumps, and you just didn't have the visibility into it, yeah. So I make sure that when I wear it, I wear it where the tubing points down, so that the air bubbles are at the top of the cartridge, so that the air bubbles are not getting pushed through my tubing. Does that happen though the air bubbles come through they can, if you wear it the other direction, because the air bubbles float to the top, and so then they can come up. But that's what happens. Than any other pump that they just don't see the pump. Yeah?

Scott Benner 1:00:02
I mean, that's not an omnipot thing. So that again, like, that's the thing I've never had to deal with, yeah, like, priming, tubing and stuff like that. Like, I don't know about that. Okay, awesome. Well, I appreciate you sharing that with me. Thank you. Absolutely. What have we not talked about that you wanted to? I think that's

Speaker 1 1:00:18
pretty much it. I mean, a lot of it, my journey has been insisting that the doctors would have to find a way to make it work, and then me doing the research to say, No, this is possible. Or me choosing like, instead of just doing the four shots a day, I'm going to go to eight shots a day, so that I have that flexibility. And me choosing flexibility over what they felt was safe predictability. But for me, that safe, predictable, every day is the same, felt like a slow death, like I I like to have my days be different, and I like to be able to decide to to go dance or go Kayak or, you know, whatever, do what I want when I want, as opposed to being locked in. And there are doctors who get that, and there are doctors who, when you push back, think you're being non compliant. Well,

Scott Benner 1:01:10
it's a it's a space on their form. They know how to and how to fill that out. She's not listening to me, right? I told her that story that I tell everybody, and she didn't like it. Yeah, have you experimented with different eating styles throughout the years?

Speaker 1 1:01:26
Not really, to be honest, I am, like, ever since I was a child. I am meat driven. Like, what do you want to eat for dinner? If we go out, it's always, what meat do I want? And then the sides I don't really care about that didn't really drive my choice ever so that is what it is. That's the way I've always eaten. Since dosing insulin and all of that, I have tended to eat my vegetables first, and then my meats and then my carbs come at the end. I just stumbled upon that. I know that that does slow the absorption of that carbs and keeps to it minimizes the spike. I did not do that purposely. It's something that that's how I already ate, and it happened to be that it minimizes a spike.

Scott Benner 1:02:16
Interesting, yeah, you tripped on listen to your

Speaker 1 1:02:19
glucose goddess. And I was like, Oh, I already do that, and that's just the way that I eat, yeah?

Scott Benner 1:02:22
Not on purpose, not because someone told you, just dumb luck. That great.

Speaker 1 1:02:27
Yeah, I just felt it's nice when something actually works out on its own.

Scott Benner 1:02:34
Every once in a while, I like to just get lucky, if you don't mind, that's right, I have one, like, final question for you, do you think that the age you were diagnosed at helped or hurt? Like, what did your parents do that thing where they were like, she's an adult, or were they still very involved? Oh,

Speaker 1 1:02:49
yeah, my parents were very like, they were terrified and they were no help, is really the bottom line. Well, it didn't help that there's a lady my mom knows who two of her three kids were type ones, but they were like, they were young, and one was going through puberty, and, like, literally, the mom was sleeping in her bedroom trying to keep her alive. And so my mom was hearing all these horror stories. And then I'm like, in Texas, and I'm like, Yeah, I'm going to get my own apartment. You can't live by yourself. And I'm like, No, I'm getting my own apartment. Like, that's what I'm doing. Like, it's not, I'm not changing everything. Now, don't get me wrong, like, I make sure my blood sugar is fine. I'm going to get my own apartment. And so, like, I would come home and they would make something, and then I'm digging through the trash for the boxes to have a clue about carb counting and that type of thing. And I've been back in Jacksonville near my parents for like, 12 years, and it's really only in the last like four years, so four years out of 26 that they are consistently recognizing that we should keep the carb counts out for Stephanie.

Scott Benner 1:03:57
Okay, they're starting to figure it out now, yeah, that's the fifth coming along. Yeah, you never know. By the time they're 150 they might really have right?

Speaker 1 1:04:06
Yeah, no, but it definitely it was mine. I was the one who had diabetes. I was the one who had to deal with it, and I did. Now, it's also like, I feel like within my family dynamics, it's like, oh, you know, we don't really have to worry about Stephanie. She always lands on her feet. She finds a way to make it work. And so that's my and so with it, with diabetes, it was that I've been interested in dating, like some people, you know, it's like, it's your diabetes. And so you manage it however you do, and you let me know if I need to do anything. And then other people want to know all about it, and some of them want to overstep and and that's been different for me, because, like, my family has not typically been involved in my diabetes, so to have someone that I'm dating involved, it's like learning to let them be involved and then deciding, like, what are the limits to their involvement, and that type of a thing. Yeah,

Scott Benner 1:04:57
that's the thing you've been able to navigate. Okay. Yeah. Absolutely

Speaker 1 1:05:00
with my fiance. He actually, this year was his third year going to touch by type one with me at the conference, and he knew nothing of type one. And then once we started dating, he's like, Okay, so at my place, I need to stock Diet Dr Pepper, honey sticks, Skittles and Airheads, because those are what I used to treat lows, and then the Diet Dr Pepper, what I drink while my body is screaming at me to continue inhaling the kitchen. Instead, I give it diet doctor to calm it down. Yeah, shut up. I'm giving you something. It's, you think it's sugar. It's not really, I like that.

Scott Benner 1:05:36
You're just like, that's good enough. I'll marry you. Finally, somebody, somebody figured it out. So it's

Speaker 1 1:05:41
been, it's been really good. And I get the beginning, he's like, can you eat that? And I would, I'd like, look at him, like, I can eat whatever I want. I just have to plan for it, and I have to dose for it, as long as it's not poison. I'm good, you know. And so, like, for the first year of dating, he'd catch himself, and then there'd be times we'd be out to eat, and so, and I would ask, because someone's like, not sure if they're giving me the coke or the Coke Zero. And I'm like, yeah, no, I need you to be sure it's a Coke Zero. So I'm a diabetic and, you know, and then, like, then, because I said something about being diabetic, when I go to order my food, the Oh, so helpful wait staff decides to tell me whether I should or shouldn't have something. And then, but it's been nice that my fancy is like, no, she can eat anything, you know. So it's nice that I don't always have to be the one stepping in to advocate. So it's been really nice to have someone else who's quote, unquote, in that fight, right?

Scott Benner 1:06:29
I'm not going to waste the insulin or my carbs on regular Dr Pepper.

Speaker 1 1:06:33
That's all No, it's not worth it to me. Yeah. Now there are some things that are worth it that is not one that's worth it for me,

Scott Benner 1:06:39
right? No, no. It makes a lot of sense. Well, Stephanie, I really appreciate you doing this. You are one of the few people that I've interviewed that I've met in person, so that was interesting for me. Normally, I just, I can't even picture the person I'm talking to, but today I could. So this is kind of fun. Thank you. That was good. Yeah, yeah. I appreciate this. Hold on one second for me. Okay, okay. A huge thank you to one of today's sponsors, gevok, glucagon. Find out more about G vo hypo pen at G VOQ, glucagon.com. Forward slash juice box. You spell that, G, V, O, k, e, g, l, U, C, A, G, o, n.com forward slash juice box, a huge thanks to a long time sponsor, ever since 365 learn more and get started today at ever since cgm.com/juice box, Arden has been getting her diabetes supplies from us med for three years. You can as well us med.com/juice, box, or call, 888-721-1514, my thanks to us, med, for sponsoring this episode and for being long time sponsors of the Juicebox Podcast. There are links in the show notes and links at Juicebox Podcast com to us, med, and all the sponsors. Are you starting to see patterns, but you can't quite make sense of them. You're like, Oh, if I Bolus here, this happens, but I don't know what to do. Should I put in a little less, a little more? If you're starting to have those thoughts, if you're starting to think this isn't going the way the doctor said it would, I think I see something here, but I can't be sure. Once you're having those thoughts, you're ready for the diabetes Pro Tip series from the Juicebox Podcast. It begins at Episode 1000 you can also find it at Juicebox podcast.com up in the menu, and you can find a list in the private Facebook group. Just check right under the featured tab at the top, it'll show you lists of a ton of stuff, including the Pro Tip series, which runs from episode 1000 to 1025 I want to thank you so much for listening and remind you please subscribe and follow to the podcast wherever you're listening right now, if it's YouTube, Apple podcast, Spotify, or any other audio app, go hit follow or subscribe whichever your app allows for and set up those downloads so you never miss an episode, especially an apple podcast, go into your settings and choose download all new episodes. Hey, what's up, everybody? If you've noticed that the podcast sounds better and you're thinking like, how does that happen? What you're hearing is Rob at wrong way, recording doing his magic to these files. So if you want him to do his magic to you, wrong way. Recording.com, you got a podcast? You want somebody to edit it? You want rob you?

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Katy, living with T1D since age 11, shares her journey through inadequate early care, insurance struggles, GLP medication challenges, and managing life with two kids, including one with autism.

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Scott Benner 0:00
Welcome back, friends to another episode of The Juicebox podcast.

Katie has type one diabetes and a couple of kids got a bunch of other stuff going on. She was diagnosed when she was 11 years old. But the reason she came on the show, it changed because she lost her insurance. You'll see what I'm talking about as you listen nothing you hear on the Juicebox podcast should be considered advice medical or otherwise, always consult a physician before making any changes to your health care plan. Are you an adult living with type one or the caregiver of someone who is and a US resident, if you are, I'd love it if you would go to T 1d exchange.org/juicebox and take the survey. When you complete that survey, your answers are used to move type one diabetes research of all kinds. So if you'd like to help with type one research, but don't have time to go to a doctor or an investigation and you want to do something right there from your sofa. This is the way t 1d, exchange.org/juice, box. It should not take you more than about 10 minutes when you place your first order for ag one, with my link, you'll get five free travel packs and a free year supply of vitamin D drink. Ag one.com/juice, box.

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Katie 2:44
name is Katie. I live in Florida. I'm 49 years old, and I've been a type one diabetes for 38 years, almost 38 years since you were 11, since I was 11 years

Scott Benner 2:54
old. Damn. Be impressed, everyone. Okay, so hold on a second. Diagnosed at 11, type one. Do you have any other auto immune issues? No,

Katie 3:02
I don't. Nothing celiac. No, my daughter does have a gluten allergy. She has not been tested for celiac, but she definitely has an allergy.

Scott Benner 3:15
How about even eczema?

Katie 3:18
I do have eczema. I did have it pretty bad as a child. I've kind of grown out of it. It's gotten a lot better. Okay,

Scott Benner 3:25
um, do you have like, bad seasonal allergies, by any chance? Not

Katie 3:30
really bad. No. Cool, but you have them? Yeah, I would say so. All right,

Scott Benner 3:34
how about in your family line, your mom, your dad, your grandmother, your grandfather, stuff like

Katie 3:38
that. No, both my parents are treated for type two. My brother is the only other one with an autoimmune disorder. He has alopecia universalis. Yeah, so he has no hair anywhere on his body.

Scott Benner 3:56
Is that that means, like universally he has is that what that's supposed to mean?

Katie 4:00
Yep, no hair anywhere his whole life. No, he got that in his 30s. He started losing his hair in his 30s. That must have been a shock. I think it was. It started coming out in perfect circles. Think it started with his mustache and his eyebrows, and then he noticed it in his hair, and then it just started falling out all over. If

Scott Benner 4:24
that happened to me, as shocking and as upset as I would be, and how much, and I have a ton of empathy for your brother, I know for certain I would make a joke to somebody and say, I think tiny aliens are landing on me at night and creating cross circles. I would, yeah, he's

Katie 4:40
the oldest, 56 I believe there's four of us all together, and I'm the youngest. He's, yeah, he's, I believe he's fairly fine with it now,

Scott Benner 4:50
yeah, that's crazy. I mean, it's not crazy. Also, it's an autoimmune issue, right? It is, yeah. So how about his kids? Do they have any autoimmune stuff?

Katie 4:59
He doesn't have any biological kids. He has two step sons. I

Scott Benner 5:03
see okay. Now I want to start here by saying, also, you have one of those names that I feel like it's trying to trick me, and I wasn't listening very closely at the beginning when you introduced yourself. So is it you say Cathy or Katie? No, it's Katie. Katie. Okay, yeah. I mean, I thought it was, but I've had people come on with your spelling, and they're like, it's Kathy. And I'm like, I it isn't

Katie 5:26
no no Katie. I've gotten on my whole life, though, okay, when Katy Perry became popular, that was when people stopped calling me Kathy. So it was way later in my life,

Scott Benner 5:36
if only she could have pulled together sooner. You know, people started getting it right for me. Yeah, she said something shocking in an interview the other day. It's so shocking that I won't mention it here, but I was like, I can't believe you said that out loud. Nevertheless, if people have heard it, they're gonna go like, Oh, I know she had something to do with the dishes and Orlando Bloom. I won't say anything else. Now, I'll have to look it up. Yeah, don't, don't, don't look too closely. Okay, what I was going to say is, I don't know how long it's been now since I started saying, like, Hey, if you know you're using a GLP medication, you have type one, you should come on the podcast. I thought I was going to get a couple of people, you know what I mean? Like, I just didn't imagine that so many people would come forward because it's off label. It's just happening over and over again. So I want to learn a little bit about your journey, but then, you know, we'll get into what you're doing now, obviously, but I appreciate you reaching out. And, you know, I hope for people listening, they're not like, oh God, every week there's somebody on using a GLP, but, like, I don't control the flow of that. Like, you know, it's sort of the same thing as, you know, if people are like, oh my, you know, this week, everybody that he had on was like, using a T slim, or everybody he has on is using like, a Dexcom or an omnipot, whatever I have the people on who reach out to be on. So, like, yeah, like, I don't control the flow of it. But let's start at the beginning for a second. You're 11. You remember your diagnosis at all? The Dexcom g7 is sponsoring this episode of The Juicebox podcast, and it features a lightning fast 30 minute warm up time that's right from the time you put on the Dexcom g7 till the time you're getting readings. 30 minutes. That's pretty great. It also has a 12 hour grace period so you can swap your sensor when it's convenient for you, all that, on top of it being small, accurate, incredibly wearable and light, these things, in my opinion, make the Dexcom g7 a no brainer. The Dexcom g7 comes with way more than just this, up to 10 people can follow you. You can use it with type one, type two, or gestational diabetes. It's covered by all sorts of insurances. And this might be the best part. It might be the best part alerts and alarms that are customizable, so that you can be alerted at the levels that make sense to you. Dexcom.com/juice, box. Links in the show notes, links at Juicebox podcast.com, to Dexcom and all the sponsors. When you use my links, you're supporting the production of the podcast and helping to keep it free and plentiful. If you're looking for a last minute holiday gift that doesn't feel last minute, check out cozy Earth and use my offer code to save 40% off of your entire cart that's going to be the sheets, the towels and the clothing, whatever you buy from cozy Earth com, you will save 40% by using Juicebox at checkout. That's all you have to do, is put in my code Juicebox at checkout and you'll save 40% and I'm talking about everything from dryer balls to the towels that I use to you know what I mean? They've got towels. They've got clothing that is super comfortable. I'm wearing the sweat pants right now. They're awesome. I'm gonna go out later today and use my pullover from cozy Earth also awesome. This stuff is temperate, right? It keeps you warm, but not hot. It keeps you cool, but not cold. Every way you want to be is the way cozy Earth wants you to be the sheets are a joy to sleep in. The towels, like I said, get all of your bits and your grooves and oh my goodness, the clothing, cozy earth.com. Use the offer code juice box at checkout to save 40%

Katie 9:13
I do. Yeah, I do. I remember specifically what stands out in my mind, is going to the movies, ordering M, M, S and a Coke, and getting up, I don't know how many times to go to the bathroom. My stomach hurting, and my mom saying something's not right. You shouldn't be paying this much. She said that I started wetting the bed shortly after that, and her knowing that that wasn't something I should be doing at 11 years old, she had enough knowledge of type one to know that that's probably what it was. She bought the little sticks that you had to pee on, and mine turned really dark, so she made everybody in the house pee on one nobody else's did. And except for hers, was a little bit darker than everybody else's, which, of course, she found was because she was on her way the developing type two. She got me into the pediatrician pretty quickly. They did the glucose test. They had me drink the nasty, you know, drink, and tested my blood sugar one time, probably a half an hour later, and immediately told her that they needed, I needed to get to the hospital right away. We lived in Washington State at the time, and we lived across the Puget Sound and needed to take a ferry to Seattle's Children's Hospital. So they told her that we needed to be on the next ferry over. So we went home, packed a bag, and we're on the next ferry. She called my dad, told him to come home from work. I remember asking her if I was going to die, and she told me she didn't know. She's like, I don't think so, but you I don't know. Can I

Scott Benner 11:01
say something to any parent listening? If your child says, Am I gonna die? You go, No, of course not.

Katie 11:09
I don't remember feeling like, Oh, wow. This is awful for me. I just was like, wow. I'm getting a lot of attention. You know,

Scott Benner 11:17
I'm still laughing about your cop saying, No,

Katie 11:20
I don't know. So I, I was in a room with four other girls, and, you know, gave me insulin. They gave me a sponge to practice on with saline and a sliding scale and all the things, and I started learning how to give myself shots.

Unknown Speaker 11:37
Is this 1986

Katie 11:39
1986 and they told my parents from the very beginning, this is her disease. She needs to learn everything about it. And I think I probably got a shot from someone else, maybe once. But other than that, I had to

Scott Benner 11:56
do it all describe using the sliding scale to me if my

Katie 12:00
blood sugar was in a certain range, I took this much insulin, and I was on regular and NPH, I can't remember exactly how much, but it was so many units. If I was between, you know, like 80 and 150 you do a

Scott Benner 12:17
test, and if you depending on where you were you'd use a certain amount of insulin. How often every day did you do that?

Katie 12:24
I tested before each meal? No, I didn't. I don't think I tested before lunch. I think it was only in the morning and then the evening. Okay? And that was it. My

Scott Benner 12:37
point is, is that phrase, this is their disease. They have to understand everything about it is a is a phrase that comes from a time when what you need to know was you tested twice a day, then you looked at the piece of paper, and then you gave yourself a shot, yeah. And somehow we've carried that forward. Now there's all this information and faster acting insolence and different ideas. And there are still some people who will look at an 11 year old and go, this is on you. And I'm like, wow, yeah, yeah, different world, you know what? I mean, yeah, it's easier in the long run because of the technology, but in the short term, there's a lot more to learn.

Katie 13:09
Oh, yeah, yeah, okay, and there was a no sugar. I mean, I wasn't allowed any sugar. No sugar allowed.

Scott Benner 13:16
Oh, fun. How long did that last? I would

Katie 13:19
say probably into my 20s. Oh, so

Scott Benner 13:21
you were very low carb. No,

Katie 13:24
I wouldn't call it low carb. Oh, so you definitely had, oh, yeah,

Scott Benner 13:28
yeah, just not a lollipop,

Katie 13:29
right? Gotcha. No sugar,

Scott Benner 13:32
no pure sugar, not sugar in something else that we don't care about. So

Katie 13:36
cake, no cookies, no

Unknown Speaker 13:38
cake. You're saying nothing fun.

Katie 13:41
I can have chips, so I definitely like the salty stuff.

Scott Benner 13:44
Isn't that fascinating that they would tell you there's no sugar, but carbs are fine, right? Yeah, very strange. Well, not strange, but for how people understand things, not that also simple, sugars would spike you more drastically and probably, and this is me guessing a little bit, but on that insulin, you probably weren't seeing as much resistance. So, right? You know what I mean? Maybe that insulin had a had an easier time with a piece of bread than it would have with a, you know, with a push up pop or something like that. But all right, so fair. Fair is fair, but you live like that into your 20s. Do you go to college? No, did diabetes have anything to do with

Katie 14:18
that? No, I don't think so. Okay, I don't think so. No, I was pretty independent, and I think and my parents, really, they were big believers, and you can do whatever you want to. So we moved to Florida when I was 14, so I got a new endo when we moved here, through Jocelyn diabetes, and I actually kept that endo until about a year ago. I had the same endo from the time I was 14 years old until a year ago.

Scott Benner 14:47
Really? Yeah, hindsight tells you that was a good idea or a bad idea. I'm

Katie 14:51
gonna say bad idea. Okay, why? He literally let me skate by on being just good enough for a long, long time. So he let me make pretty much all my adjustments and my own decisions. And I wouldn't say until I really started listening to the podcast and really started understanding that the actual process of my own disease and becoming my own advocate, that I was like, I'm going to take over and adjust this myself and do things myself. How

Scott Benner 15:24
long ago did you find the podcast?

Katie 15:26
Probably about three years ago.

Scott Benner 15:28
Oh my gosh, yeah.

Katie 15:30
So I lived with an A, 1c in the sevens, the eights for most my life.

Scott Benner 15:38
Yeah. Do you have any anything going on now, because of that, I am programmed not to say complications. Can I tell you something? Yeah, Katie, I'm just going to share something here that I think constantly and I never say out loud. I'm going to say it to see if I can get rid of it. I tried, for some reason in the past, so hard not to say complications, that when I want the word, I can't even find it in my brain, I've strong arm myself into not saying it. And I don't want to do that. I want to just say, like, Do you have any complications?

Katie 16:06
I understand that, because I do the same thing in the line of work. I'm in I don't like to say disabilities, so I understand that too. I try not to say that. I don't like it, yeah, so I do the same type of thing, but because

Scott Benner 16:20
I don't want to, I very firmly don't, do not believe in scaring people into taking care of themselves. And I think that, like, if that's the next question I ask, it could come off as trying to scare the people listening. But I I'm just asking because you had an A one saying the seven and eights for a really long time, and I want to know what the impact of that was.

Katie 16:42
The only thing that I am dealing with now, and I absolutely hate it, is my is frozen shoulder. It definitely hurts all the time. I

Scott Benner 16:54
have heard it described in a way that doesn't make it sound like the tiniest bit of fun. Have you ever had them work on it in any way? No,

Katie 17:00
I have gone through physical therapy for both of them. The biggest benefit I've gotten is through a chiropractor. That's what I've benefited the most from. Okay, so, but, yeah, I do my stretches and everything, but I do see a chiropractor regularly.

Scott Benner 17:17
Okay, did they do that thing where you make a chicken wing on the side, and then you push your elbow back, and they pull on your shoulder. I haven't done that. How about how about the one where they you bend your fist up towards your shoulder, and then they grab your elbow and pull it back.

Katie 17:32
That sounds horrible. I gotta just tell you

Scott Benner 17:34
I have and I'm not alone, because I see the views on the YouTube channels. But Scottie loves to watch somebody get adjusted by a chiropractor on the I do too. Yeah, I do too. It's funny because never to the point where I'm like, I'm gonna go, like, I'm gonna go hunt one. It's just there's something about it that I'm just like, Oh, I wonder what that is like, the one now that I in my wildest dreams, I can't imagine is good for you. They put the victim on a table, on their back, and then pull their head up straight. Have you seen that?

Katie 18:05
Yeah, yeah. I look at almost like they're gonna pop their head off. Yeah,

Scott Benner 18:10
yeah. It's so rudimentary, they'll like, wrap a towel around their neck, grab the towel and, like, yank up on your and as I see it, I have two distinct thoughts. That does not look safe and, oh, I would like to try that. I know that's ridiculous, but anyway, yeah, but your chiropractor helps you. You go to adjustment. It helps your shoulder. Yeah. So my next question is, is, did you go to therapy before or after you found the podcast?

Katie 18:35
That's a good question.

Scott Benner 18:36
You know? Why I'm asking I'm wondering if lower, more stable blood sugars. Like, I don't know if the frozen shoulder is something that's now happened and it's there, and you can't, I think it is, and you can't really change it much, because they break away the because that whole part of that therapy is, like, they move your arm around a lot, right to just kind of break, break it free. And it's very painful, from what I understand. I

Katie 18:58
think I started going probably before my mom had a frozen shoulder, and so I knew that's what it was. And that happened probably five years ago. The first one okay, and it resolved, and then the second one started. And every time I've gone they've said, Well, what did you do to injure it? And I've said, nothing. I didn't do anything. I'm a type one diabetic. I kind of, it's par for the course. I knew this was probably going to happen to me. Yeah, it's a current issue. It is with one of them, my right side, right now. Okay, yeah, which is kind of brings up another thing is, you know, going to the doctor, if you go to a just a general practice doctor or a new doctor at my age with my gray hair. I don't know if you remember, we just met on Saturday. Of course, I don't. And they see me at my age and I say, I'm a type one diabetic, they kind of look at me like, Are you sure you know? Like they don't believe you if somebody at my age or your type one, are you sure you're. Type one, and they look at my chart again. Oh yeah, I guess you are. It's like, well, what? It's kind of they don't see us often. It's like, we grow up, you know? And I'm a type one, and I have been since I was 11. I know what I'm talking about. So this frozen shoulder, when I say it's this way because I didn't injure it. It just is something that has happened to me.

Scott Benner 20:24
I've had elevated blood sugars for 30 years, right? Yeah, I don't know.

Katie 20:29
They just a lot of times, don't quite get what I'm trying to say,

Scott Benner 20:32
yeah. And so you find yourself having to re explain it all the time, all the time, yeah, should we take a left turn here and talk about your estate sale

Katie 20:42
story. Oh, sure,

Scott Benner 20:44
I love this. Yeah, this is awesome. So I don't want to interject. Just tell it from the beginning. Well,

Katie 20:49
I was pulling up to an estate sale that's really close to my house. I happened to see a woman and her husband walking out and on her jeans looked like a pager. And I thought, nobody in 2004 or 24 not 14 has a pager. And I said, that's an insulin pump, and it looks like mine. And my son was with me, and I said, that is a tea slim. And I rolled my window down, and I said, I have the same pump as you. And she grabbed it. She said, No way. She came up to my window and she said, You have type one? And I said, Yeah, I do. And I pulled mine out. I wear mine in my bra, of course. And and so we immediately started talking, and I said, Do you listen to and she finished my sentence, and she said, The Juicebox podcast. And so then we exchanged names and phone numbers and became Facebook friends, and we met for dinner about two weeks later and took that picture. And of course, while we were in that restaurant, talking and speaking the same language about diabetes and everything. There was a man in the restaurant that just let out the biggest art ever and just shocked us, and we couldn't stop giggling. And so I had to write that on the Facebook page, because I thought it was so funny that, I mean, we talk about bodily functions on that page anyway, so why not share it and and then add that picture of us? So I thought it was really funny, and I was happy to see that everybody else thought it was really funny too.

Scott Benner 22:31
Oh yeah, no, it was just terrific. I'm wondering, How frequently do you see other type ones out in the world?

Katie 22:35
It made me kind of wonder how often we have ran into each other, because we also found out her name is Laura. We also found out that we don't live very far from each other at all, and we do have friend, a friend in common. So, I mean, in Jacksonville is a pretty big city, so we must have seen each other more than you know, more than once. So it's just

Scott Benner 22:58
fascinating, because you're similarly aged. Am

Katie 23:00
I right? We are. Yeah, we're only a couple years apart, and even

Scott Benner 23:03
though you're, you're younger, you both have like, white hair. Yes,

Katie 23:07
a lot of people said we looked we look alike. I don't think we look alike, but yes, we both have gray hair. Yeah, we're, we're probably just two years apart, but

Scott Benner 23:16
you don't have like, old lady kinky gray hair. No, you have that. You can't. You have that because my wife's hair looks like yours. It has, yeah? It's like, silvery, yeah. Like, people look at it, they're like, Oh, my God. How did you accomplish that? How can I do that? And she's like, Oh, I just stopped dying my hair one day. And this is what happens,

Katie 23:32
exactly, genetics. Yeah,

Scott Benner 23:34
it's interesting. But what's more interesting is you don't see type ones out in the wild that often you see one. You speak up, because you know she's got your pump. And the two of you listen to this podcast. But when you said, Hey, do you listen to she knew what you were saying and completed the sentence? She did? You have to everyone listening for a second. Has to put yourself in my shoes when I hear that story, because I'm like, What the hell it's one thing to know the podcast is popular and out in the world and everything, but you really do limit the percentage of chance that two of you are gonna know what it is and not just know what it is, but have it so top of mind that if somebody says, Hey, do you listen? And while diabetes is in your head, you're like, Oh my God, they're gonna say Juicebox podcast. Like, that's crazy to me. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I really appreciated you sharing that, and then you came to touch by type one last week I

Katie 24:25
did, and I went the the previous year as well, and I did just get the notification of when it's going to be the year after. So I'm pretty excited to go again, and it's only a couple hours away from me, so it's easy for me to go, and that's fun. Yeah, I just

Scott Benner 24:41
saw them announce it on their social media, and I jumped on and said, Hey, I haven't unpacked my bag yet from this one like slow, the person who runs the whole thing, jumped on and she said, My bag's not unpacked yet either. A lovely event, and they do such a wonderful job putting it together. Yeah, yeah, it's really something. But, but. Was nice to meet you in person like that. That was awesome. If we met the year before, I apologize for not knowing that I saw you

Katie 25:05
last year, and I think I talked to you, but I don't know that we talked much. Okay, I think I was fairly new to the podcast then. So, okay,

Scott Benner 25:14
so then explain to me, then if you've been listening to the podcast for maybe a year or a couple of years, maybe yes, right? And you've had diabetes your whole flipping life. How do you turn on a podcast made by a guy who doesn't have diabetes, right? Fair enough. My daughter has it, and I've been, you know, helping her take care of it for a very long time and all. But like, how do you turn that on and think, like, Oh, I'm gonna listen to this. Why don't you think like, this guy couldn't possibly understand my life? Or, how do you even know you need more so many questions in there. I'm so sorry. I'm unclear. How did you know to look for something like what was forcing you to go out and look for something that's my first question. Let's

Katie 25:51
see. I think part of the reason is because I am a parent of a child with and here's the word that I said, I don't like to use, I'm going to say different ability that is 22 years old, that was diagnosed at a young age, and I learned everything I possibly could about his disability. And so I then went into the field of autism and learned everything that I could, and now try and help other kids, and he is very well equipped in his life, and so I kind of knew that I could listen to you, because I kind of did what you are doing. I does that make sense? You're

Scott Benner 26:47
out there helping people with autism, and you're not. You don't have some fancy degree or have and I don't have it, right,

Katie 26:54
right? So I taught him to advocate for himself, but I never advocated for my own self. You know what I mean. So I thought, why am I not doing that for myself? If I did, if I instilled it in him, I need to take it back for myself. You're

Scott Benner 27:11
aware then that your care is not all it could be exactly. And your whole adult like, you're married, right? You have other kids, or just one. I have two, two kids, two kids, yeah, two kids. You're married. You've had diabetes for three plus decades, almost, you know, almost four, right? You know that entire time I could be doing better for myself. Why don't you? Yeah,

Katie 27:30
I mean, I wasn't doing horrible. No, no,

Scott Benner 27:33
and I'm certainly not saying you are. I'm saying, if you thought there was sealing What stops you from reaching for it?

Katie 27:38
I don't know, maybe just the lack of self love, you know, just not just trying to take care of everybody else, maybe, which I think a lot of mothers do.

Scott Benner 27:49
Yeah, you like yourself, though. You're not saying you didn't like yourself. Oh, I do like myself. You're just saying you were directing that, that care and concern onto other people. Oh,

Katie 27:58
definitely. Okay, yeah, yeah. Yeah. Okay, so you

Scott Benner 28:01
decide, listen, I'm gonna tell you the same thing. Arden went off to college, and I said to Kelly, I'm like, I'm gonna go to a doctor and say, Hey, can you help me? Like, you know? And when I said it to the doctor, I said, Look, I got both of them off the college Damn. And have a heart attack. You know what I mean? Like, I mean something's, something's wrong with my body, you know, I knew that prior, and I would only reach for help if I was in a dire situation. It was interesting up until I just decided, like, Okay, I did the thing. I got everybody off, like, they're in reasonable shape now, like, you know, can I help myself a little bit? So that's awesome. When you're searching, what do you search for? When you decide, like, I'm gonna see if I can figure out more about this.

Katie 28:37
I went to the doctor that I had, you know, that I had for 30 years? And I said, he was kind of like your a 1c is it could be better, he had told me. And I said, Who, what pump, because I was on Medtronic for 25 years. And I said, Who has the best a 1c what patients have? What pump gives them the best a 1c I said, because I can't get it with Medtronic something's not right. I'm trying, and I keep throwing insulin at these with this CGM, and it's like, it's just not I keep gaining weight, and it's just not working. The CGM is, I'm constantly calibrating it. It's not right? It's not giving me the correct readings. And so he said, the T slim and and the g6 I think, was what I had at the time. And I said, Okay, well, I want to switch over to that. And he said, Okay. And, I mean, he pretty much do whatever I asked. So he gave it to me, or wrote the prescription, and I got it, and immediately everything started coming down. And was better. I went on Facebook and I joined the group for that T slim, and someone on there said, start listening to this podcast. And that's how I found you. And so I started listening to you, and that's when everything else started clicking into place.

Scott Benner 29:59
That's. Somebody said, you should try this podcast, yes, yeah,

Katie 30:04
yeah, okay, great. And then the glps came out, and again, I learned about those. And I said to my husband, who has type two, I said, Why don't you ask your doctor if you can get on these? And he did, and he started taking them. And so then I went to my doctor. And I said, hey, could I take these? And he said, Sure, I don't see why you can't take take them. And he wrote the prescription, and I started taking them. You

Scott Benner 30:28
were able to qualify for weight, I'm assuming. So, okay, so your husband qualified as a type two, though, right, right, right. If your BMI, I think, is over 27% you'll qualify with insurance for weight reasons. Did they give you, we go V or Z bound, or did they give you? Gave

Katie 30:44
me mongero? They did. And he, as he wrote it, he said they might not cover this on insurance because you're not a type two, but give it a try. And so I did, and they approved it, and they approved it for a year, and then they stopped approving it. Okay,

Scott Benner 31:02
we'll get to that. So you start taking it. I don't need your weight, but like, just keep your starting weight in mind, because I'm interested in how much you lost, if you lost any along the way, and everything else that happened. So when you start shooting it, is it point two, five? Yes. Is that how that wait? Is that how manjarna is? Yeah. Okay. And you do that for a month. I

Katie 31:23
did it for more than a month. I was on the starting dose for probably, oh, I did keep a diary of it. I'm sorry I didn't have it right here

Scott Benner 31:32
with how come the doctor didn't move you up and up? Were you not in Congress with him?

Katie 31:36
He told me, just let me know when you want to move up. Just send me through the My Chart thing, just send me a message. I just moved up slowly. Yeah, I want to say I was probably on it for about three months, the starting dose, and then I moved up, yeah, to the next one. So

Scott Benner 31:51
tell me, what was the, what was the initial impact when you started taking it? I'll find out what the dosing schedule is for Montana while you're doing that.

Katie 31:58
I would say it was, it was pretty quick that I needed, that it impacted how much insulin I needed. I went from about anywhere from 100 to 120 units a day to probably around 60. Let me tell you, I did not go to him or have much communication with him about dropping my basal rate, or how much my carb ratio, or any of that, I did it all on my own. I started just dropping it little by little, and then as my doses went up, I started dropping it more and more and more.

Scott Benner 32:37
Okay, so just let me clarify for people, because I was thinking of wegovy or ozempic When I said point two five, it's 2.5 milligrams, 2.5 right? Is the starting dose. It goes from 2.5 to five to 7.5 to 10 to 12.5 to 15, right? I do 12.5 right now. So you start using it your insulin needs drop in half. Yes. Do you have PCOS or no? Did you have a fair amount of weight to lose?

Katie 33:06
I would say I could stand to lose about 100 pounds.

Scott Benner 33:10
Okay, so do you think you had, like, insulin resistance, or were just using a lot of insulin because your body

Katie 33:14
mass? Yes. And I would say also insulin resistance. And I would say a big part of that was also menopause. I was hitting that at the same time.

Scott Benner 33:23
Is it helping with that? Yes, I hear stories about it helping people with perimenopause. Yeah, okay, you stay on it for three months. How much to weight did you lose the first three months?

Katie 33:33
I would say I lost an average of 10 pounds a month snap.

Scott Benner 33:36
I've got the power awesome. Did you notice at touch by type one this weekend, that at the opening ceremony, which is not really open, it's the opening talk, they ran a video from the previous year, and that I was briefly in that video, and that I look significantly different now than I did in that video. Yes. Wasn't that weird? Yeah, yeah. Because last year I thought, Oh, I look good here.

Katie 34:03
My daughter said that too. She's like, he's lost a lot of weight. Yeah, no

Scott Benner 34:06
kidding. And I had already lost a lot of weight because I showed up at that thing last year, and I was like, Look out people. It was really something like I sat there when I popped up in front of myself on that screen. I thought, Oh, I did not expect to have that reaction. I looked and I went, ooh, oh, I wasn't anywhere near where I am. Now, super interesting. Yeah, that's great. Do you have the same feeling, though, like you lose the first 10 pounds, you're like, Wow, all right, then it's 20, you're like, I look great. And then every time you lose more, you look back and go, What was I thinking? Yeah,

Katie 34:35
it's pretty exciting. Yeah, no, really is. It's hard to lose weight, you know, I do think that being diabetic, it kind of it works against you a little. I mean, it's difficult. It really is. I have had success in the past with Weight Watchers. Was helpful. I I've I've used that before, and I've done like a. Low carb diet. Those are always helpful, but then they, to me, aren't sustainable, because I end up just going, oh, forget I want bread or whatever, you know, like,

Unknown Speaker 35:10
I can't forget it.

Katie 35:11
Forget it. I'm starving myself in

Scott Benner 35:14
all the other ways that you had done this, had you ever lost 30 pounds in three months? No, no. I mean, it's not that it can't be done, but, man, it's hard. And you start, for me, I start looking at the clock. I'm like, hey, you know, like, when I went to the doctor at first about this, I was probably 51 and I was like, I don't have a whole lot of time here. And I know people think that's morbid, but you know what I mean? Like, yeah, what do I got here? Like, I mean, I'm gonna be 73 in 20 years. You think I'm gonna go out and travel the world and play pickleball on Thursdays and whatnot when I'm 70. Like, I hope so, but I can't count on that. Like, now I'm the time. I want to get to it a little faster. Now. Would have been nice if I would have started when I was 20, and never been in this position, I understand. But I also look back now and I see all the other things that the Manjaro, yeah, that juice, the good juice, we'll call it, like all the other things that I'm seeing it do for me that are well beyond just my weight, right?

Katie 36:06
You know, I know, and I feel that way too. So at the beginning, it is super exciting. You're like, I look so much better. I look back at the pictures, because now I've lost 50 pounds, a little over 50 pounds, and I'm like, I look so much better, but I also am like, I am amazed at how much better I feel and how much better I know that I am inside. You know how much my health is has improved, and how much less insulin I'm taking and how much I mean, not that that is a factor of health, you know, but for me, I need it, you know. Like you say, I need what you need, what you need, but I am taking so much more. It's better care of myself and on a whole. But now I'm running into this roadblock where my insurance is not going to cover it. I can still get it. My doctors will prescribe it. It's not that, but I now have had to take another job if I want to pay for this.

Scott Benner 37:10
So your doctor will prescribe it, but your insurance won't pay for it anymore, correct? They won't cover it. Can I ask you, though, if you still have 50 pounds to lose, why don't you just ask him for zbound Instead of Manjaro, they

Katie 37:23
won't cover a weight loss.

Scott Benner 37:24
Oh, your insurance doesn't cover that. No, shitty insurance. Yeah, it really is. Who do we blame your husband? Yeah, okay, we'll

Katie 37:33
do that. We'll do that. Yeah, because he can give it I can't,

Scott Benner 37:37
Julie, he has type two, right? Fancy man, I've seen people get a dual diagnosis, type one and insulin resistance. So

Katie 37:45
I switched endos, and I asked the new and endo for that if I could have a dual diagnosis. And he said, Absolutely not. You're not a type two, yeah. And I said, I have insulin resistance. And he said, No, you don't i? And I said, Okay, maybe I need a new new, new Endo. Let's

Scott Benner 38:06
see running for post. So also, maybe that's not a good example, but you know what I'm saying,

Katie 38:12
my new estate sale diversity, she has a different Endo, and she's also on mangero. So maybe I

Scott Benner 38:21
feel like what you need is a switch to a different office. Yeah. What is he like? Isn't that funny that a physician could look and see that you've had all this success and all this benefit from something and then be swayed by the arbitrary rules of an insurance company? You don't need this because the insurance won't cover it. What does that mean? Anything? You know, awesome. Thanks a lot. When you were talking about feeling better, I found myself thinking that before, I used to think like, I was, like, a vital person in a body that was just, like, not operating well, like, you don't even, like, I'd run up the stairs and I'd be like, Yeah, I am a person who runs up the stairs you don't even, but like, I always used to think, like, I guess, I guess, just to be clear, like, I think, oh, for a fat guy, I'm really fast, or for a person who's overweight, I'm more athletic than you would think I would be. Like, you used to look at me and you wouldn't imagine I was athletic, but I was like, stuff like that. Not like, not like, on the level of my son, but like, you know, for for a guy my age, I quick and agile and stuff like that. And I used to just think of it as, like, this is my level of proficiency with athleticism, and, you know, that kind of stuff. And now that I'm the all that weight is off of me, I realized, like, that was, like, a fraction of who I was. Yeah, it's really interesting how much I was being held back by it. And I know some people are going to listen and be like, Yeah, you were fat and it held you back from being athletic. Like, I know that seems obvious now, and it seems obvious to me, but I wasn't eating my way to that scenario. Like my body just really did not intersect with food very well, and it didn't matter what food it was like, no matter how I ate, how little, how much. What kind quality of it my body would just, like, constantly, like, I would just always be holding water weight and adding weight, and I'd get heavier and heavier and and feel achy. Oh, my God, everywhere. It didn't feel good. I was tired. Like, you know, all that stuff, I take this stuff and all the things that people have heard me talk about, like, I can absorb iron now through my food. It's a big deal. I used to have to get infusions to not pass out my knee and my my feet. I used to have plantar fasciitis. Don't have that anymore. My knee hurt. My knee doesn't hurt anymore. My back used to be super stiff. My back is not stiff anymore. I feel bad because everybody bought me this chair because my back was stiff a few years ago, and now I still have the chair and I don't have the stuff back, but I appreciate it nonetheless, like all these things that changed, and I do think a lot of them have to do with just inflammation, which is probably some sort of an immune response in my body, right? You know what I mean, and I brought it up earlier, but tell me how you feel like it may have impacted your Are you in menopause fully, or was it perimenopause?

Katie 41:03
No, I'm fully. It's menopausal. Yeah, yeah.

Scott Benner 41:07
What symptoms did that help with? I'm

Katie 41:10
not exactly sure I I think I was going through menopause. I think I was pretty much done with it. Before that all it started. I am not sure that it helped with the the weight gain exactly. I had hot flashes. I didn't have a spotting or anything like that. So I don't know that it helped too much with that. Yeah,

Scott Benner 41:37
well, in ways that you could, like see and some things I've heard from other people. First of all, losing weight is going to help, right? Because that fat impacts your hormone right? So if you get rid of some of that, you might have some better luck there with hormonal fluctuations, stuff like that. But my wife specifically said, like, the hot flashes, the night sweats, like that, stuff really alleviated. Yeah, on it. And she also has long COVID, oh, which is a thing that I'm sure some people are like, that's not real, but I've seen it. It's pretty real. When she started taking a GLP, a lot of her long COVID symptoms got much easier. That's good, yeah, very cool. And then there was this moment I forget exactly what happened, but for a moment, she a doctor asked her, not her Endo, not the person who gave her the GLP, but another doctor said to her, Hey, if you're having a different symptom, stop taking that GLP for a week. And she came home and she's like, they told me to stop taking the GLP. And I was like, Look, I'm going to tell you the same thing. I tell the internet I'm not a doctor, and this isn't advice, but I wouldn't stop taking that. If I was No, I wouldn't either, right? And she's like, No, let me just do what He said for, you know, a week. And I'm like, All right, don't listen to me, which I've been married for a long time. I was expecting that. And so she definitely doesn't listen to me about anything, and she probably shouldn't, in fairness, but she stops taking it, and, like, four or five days later, she's like, Oh crap. So many of her long COVID symptoms started coming back right away. And I was like, I told you not to stop taking that magic juice. So she's like, Well, I'm gonna, I'm gonna take it again on Saturday. I'm like, why are you waiting till Saturday? She goes, That's my day to take it. I was like, Oh my God, just take it on Wednesday. What do you mean? What do you care? She's too type A that she waited till Saturday, but she started taking again. It ramped back up in her system, and she said, all that stuff, stop. Wow, that's amazing. Pretty awesome. Like again, I think just, I think it's inflammation that it's impacting,

Katie 43:33
right? Yeah, now I only have one more dose of mongero, and then I don't have any more so

Scott Benner 43:42
tell me again you literally had to go get a a job to pay for just this stuff,

Katie 43:46
right? I I am a respite provider. I have been working part time. I'm a respite provider for military families who have children with special needs. It's kind of a hit or miss job. They just call me when they need me, and I go into their home. So it's like a home health type of job, yeah, but I have taken a full time job as a preschool teacher, and so I am doing that now trying to figure out if I'm gonna go and now pay out of pocket for mongero prescription, you know, because it costs $550 a month if I want to make, yeah,

Scott Benner 44:26
the price came down recently, but it's still like five or $600 is what I was gonna say, right, yeah. Have you tried telling the preschool just to send the money right to Eli Lilly? Maybe they'll give you a tax break or something,

Katie 44:36
or maybe I can just go work for Eli Lilly. I mean, listen,

Scott Benner 44:41
if they give you a job before they buy an ad on this podcast about manjarna, then I'm gonna be pissed. Oh, my word. Meanwhile, I don't expect that a pharma company needs to buy an ad for any of their drugs like I'm pretty sure that, you know, they gotta handle them 1000 different ways, and I don't need it or want it, but I'm only really sharing my. Experience with it, but it's been very positive. And I do want to say because it bears saying it doesn't work for everybody. Like, there are people who know do not tolerate it at all, and there are also people with type one who take it, who don't see a big benefit in their insulin needs, that that does happen sometimes, sometimes people take it and they're like, I didn't see my insulin needs change at all for you. I mean, you, you had a pretty significant I mean, would you say 120 a day to 60 a day well, and

Katie 45:28
now it's even less than that. I take about 35 a day now.

Scott Benner 45:32
So some of that need was for your body mass. Yeah, yeah. It's some of it was for other reasons. And, I mean, what are we kind of hearing from people when they come on the podcast sometimes is that maybe they have some beta cells working, but it's just kind of so I don't even know how to put this, very un technical, but like, you know, like, your insulin need is so great you're not seeing it. And then you you kind of alleviate the need a little bit through weight loss, through hormonal control that you're getting, and then all of a sudden, maybe you're getting some help from your beta your beta cells. All of a sudden. Like, who knows? For some people, I do

Katie 46:06
have some beta cells that are so that are working, right? I just had that all checked, yeah, it's

Scott Benner 46:10
my expectation. And the people who don't see a bump from it just don't have any beta cell production at all, like, like, from it. But that's me, I want to be very clear. That is literally just me guessing right out of my ass. So like, I'm I really don't know anything. I'm just talking to people and trying to put two and two together. But yeah, so you're so your insulin needs for from 120 into the 30s a day. Yeah? God, you must be happy about that, huh?

Katie 46:35
I am. And now I'm scared after death, though, because I don't know what's gonna happen. Yeah, I say I don't know what's gonna happen. What's gonna happen is I'm gonna be paying, like,

Scott Benner 46:45
here's what's gonna happen, and I'm gonna sell whatever I have to sell to get this stuff. And that's gonna be that, can't you just go to your doctor and be like, Hey, man, what do you mean? A dick for pretty much. Like, here look what happened when I take the stuff, I go from 120 units a day, to 35 units a day. When I take the stuff, I'm down, would you say 50 pounds? Yeah?

Katie 47:07
And I it's still coming off, happening, yeah, yeah.

Scott Benner 47:12
Why don't you're gonna stop me from getting this. This 50 pounds is gonna come back. I'm gonna be back to 120 units of insulin a day. And then you're gonna say to me, Oh, guess what? You qualify for this again, like, what are you being an asshole for? Like, or just go to a better doctor, I guess. But, yeah, Jesus, 600 a month. 612, 1824, 3036, that's $7,500 a year.

Katie 47:33
I know it's very depressing, it is. And the amount of money we pay in insurance is depressing. Also because, you know, I mean, we pay almost as much as our mortgage payment for the insurance that we have. Holy hell do you really when my, yeah, when my, I was gonna say, when my, when we got married, when I got married, 26 years ago, my dad told my husband, he's like, he said, make sure you are you sure you want to marry her. She's expensive. Make sure you always have good insurance.

Scott Benner 48:05
We've got other choices in the barn if you want to grab a different one, this one only eats the best Patty, just so you know, yeah, I just, I love your dad talking about you, like your cattle, by the way, that's awesome. And your husband didn't take him seriously, and he should have,

Katie 48:19
and he's still with me. He stuck around. In fairness,

Scott Benner 48:23
I once after I was married my my wife's father said to me, like we were in a big group of guys and somebody was giving me crap about something, and my father in law stepped up, and he goes, hey, hey, easy on him. He's, uh, he does good with her. I was like, Oh, God, what does that mean? I was like, this is awfully insulting to your daughter, but she is difficult. Nevertheless, I hope she'll never hear this. No. I mean, it's just, it's really upsetting to go through decades of toil, figure something out and then have somebody tell you, like, no, no. I don't think so. I don't think you can happen anymore. Are you just gonna go try the other doctor?

Katie 49:04
I don't know what to do. I've gone back and forth about it.

Scott Benner 49:08
Why would you not do that?

Katie 49:09
I should. I should, yeah, and I know who he is. I know who the doctor is. I've heard of him. Yeah,

Scott Benner 49:16
he's doctor. Your ass is gonna be skinny. Go talk to them. That's right. Yeah. Yeah. Are you telling me, is this like a doctor in a mobile home or something like that? Or no, no, okay, okay, there's not like gators out front and a sign and you're gators

Katie 49:30
everywhere out front, and that's what everybody thinks. Yeah.

Scott Benner 49:35
Are there not, isn't it just like boa constrictors and gators on the roads pretty

Katie 49:40
much. That's all you ever see on the news. Is

Scott Benner 49:43
that not true? You're like, I don't think that's true. I live here.

Katie 49:46
You know, when we moved here, my dad made us give our dog away because he said that the alligators would eat it. We moved here with a dog. We believed him.

Scott Benner 49:54
Your dad's like, I figured out how to get rid of that dog. That's

Katie 49:57
my dad. Yeah, I

Scott Benner 49:58
finally got, oh, you. Want the dog to beaten by an alligator, dude, you're like, No daddy, like, God, we're gonna have to leave it here. And where were you? Puget? Sound, where were you over there?

Katie 50:07
Yeah, we were in across the water from Seattle. Yeah, you moved

Scott Benner 50:11
as far as a human being can move, going through us, the US, yeah, man, and you've been there ever since, yeah, never left you like the Florida. No,

Katie 50:23
I don't have air. Why are you there? Well, my husband was born and raised here, so he,

Scott Benner 50:30
I don't know he's the problem. Again, you're saying, yeah, yeah, pretty much. Boys always a problem. I know I'm a huge problem. So for my wife, I know she looks at me like, if you weren't here, I feel like I'd be happier, and I and I'm like, she's probably right about that and all that. By the way, that's unspoken. She doesn't say it out loud. I just I read it in her eyes. Oh, my god, wow. When you came on, when you signed up to come on, you were signing up to tell a happy story about I found this medication. Yeah, about that,

Katie 51:00
and now it's sad. So I guess if anybody listening has any insight on making my insurance pay, or I don't know when in the world, their insurance companies are finally going to jump on board and realize or the FDA is going to approve it for us, I know that it's it's gaining popularity for type one.

Scott Benner 51:20
Yeah. I mean, I'm doing more than my fair share of trying to get the word out about it. So, yeah,

Katie 51:24
I know there's studies, but I don't know how long it takes for those studies to finally, you know, get be finished, to where it's going to be something that we all can get. I don't know how long that happens. It's disingenuous

Scott Benner 51:38
to some degree, because they've done so there's been two studies let me see if I can find them on GLP that were so successful, the FDA stopped them. I think the one was for kidneys that I'm thinking of. Hold on a second. I'm gonna, I'm gonna find this. This is me talking half out of my ass, okay, but it's something I know I've seen before. I just don't have all the details. There was, like, I think an ozempic study about that was for kidneys and Novo and semaglutide Kidney study early due to strong efficacy signals. Okay, now you can go find this story if you want, and read through it. But what I'm telling you is my takeaway was this was working so well that the FDA was like, Hey, this isn't even right to put people in a double blind study over we know this works. Start giving them the drug for it. Let's stop studying it. It doesn't need to be studied anymore, right? It's been that successful. And then there was one recently, GLP, 94% type two. These are just my Google terms. Ah, here it is. Tris appetite reduced the risk of developing type two diabetes by 94% in adults with pre diabetes and obesity or overweight. This is an article from August 2024 okay, they did a study on people with pre diabetes. It benefited 94% of the people in the study. They're not pre diabetic anymore. Wow, when a study is 94% positive, you just go, Whoa, and you don't mean you're like, my god, this is working overwhelmingly for people, if they take five seconds. This study I'm looking at, evaluated 1032 adults who had pre diabetes at randomization, and obesity or overweight for a treatment period of 176 weeks, followed by a 17 week off treatment period for 193 weeks total. The result from this surmount one phase three studies, primary analysis in 72 weeks, and all participants were published in Union medicine. It worked. Okay, yeah, right. Take 1000 people with type one diabetes, randomize it, put them on a GLP, and let's get going. Because look at this, three goddamn years to do you got to get to it here. I would imagine that the insurance companies probably aren't at the moment thrilled, because the more they can, you know, they got to keep paying for it. But I would assume too, is it? I mean, I don't know how all that works, right? But as it becomes more and more obvious it's working, the company is going to have to make more of it. It should get easier to make and cheaper to make, and hopefully that can help the pricing process a little bit. But I mean, Jesus Christ, if it's helping women with PCOS, and it's helping people with type one diabetes and type two diabetes and obesity and me and like, you know, iron. Like, why not? Like, let's go. You know what I mean,

Katie 54:34
right? And is it, it brings up all the conspiracy theories. Is it because they just want to keep us sick, you know, and all the things that people say

Scott Benner 54:43
for, I don't know who's trying to keep you sick or not, I think they just don't want to pay for stuff. That's true. Yeah, definitely true. Maybe a company that makes crappy food isn't super excited about it. I would that, I that, I have no trouble imagining that in a, in a in an office somewhere, somebody who's making, like, you know, cupcakes that are basically. Plastic, and they stay good on a shelf for 17 years. They're like saying good all these people on these GLP medications because I splurged this week. I didn't shoot my GLP on the day I was supposed to. I got bum fuzzled On the day. So last night I splurged. I had a splurge yesterday. Let me tell you what I did. I went to a local deli. I got a turkey and roast beef sandwich with provolone, and I had half of it for lunch and half of it for dinner. I was crazy. Okay, for a person taking a GLP medication that pretty much qualifies as like, oh my god, so it's got to hurt the junk food market, and some if enough people get on it, but yeah, I just want to say again, they studied over 1000 people with pre diabetes, and 94% of them benefited from it. So you're going to see fewer heart attacks, fewer strokes. You're going to see less type two diabetes. And look at all the good things it did for you so far,

Katie 55:58
right? It's impacting a lot of markets. Yeah, I

Scott Benner 56:03
don't know. I just don't, I don't want to see type ones hooking for their GLP money. You know what I mean?

Katie 56:10
I guess that's my next option. No, I

Scott Benner 56:12
wasn't saying, yeah. I'm just saying, like, people shouldn't have to go do what you're talking like, you had a job you really enjoyed, right? And you'd like to keep doing that, but now you're like, Well, maybe I'll go do this one instead, because maybe I can make more money to pay for my GLP. And I don't like knowing your like specific details, but if this thing's $600 a month, this job in this preschool, you know, I don't imagine it's a laying 6090 grand a year on your Ford. So like you're working that whole month to get the GLP and not have much left over. Is that right?

Katie 56:42
I have some, I mean, and I enjoy it. I do enjoy work

Scott Benner 56:46
at the job so, but it's a chunk of your income. Oh,

Katie 56:50
yeah, would definitely be a chunk, yeah, all right, yeah, yeah.

Scott Benner 56:54
See, that's just, I don't know. That's not right. You know, commiserate with anything else, like, as we learn more and more about it, like withholding it from people, starts to feel more and more like not giving them insulin, or not giving them their heart medication or something, right? You know, yeah, it just works too well to act like, oh, it's for the people who can afford it. Yeah, I agree, yeah, because there's plenty of people out there that couldn't just go pick up a job and shell 600 like we're we're teasing your husband for not providing but obviously, if, if you can afford to spend $600 a month on something that isn't your your base bills, you're doing okay to begin with. And so, you know, so there are plenty of people aren't doing okay to begin with. Could really use this medication? You know, I spoke yesterday. I'm actually gonna rush it out. It was so interesting. This 19 year old girl comes on the show. She's a college student. She literally, we did this from, like, her apartment at college. The interview she comes on, and she tells me about all of her problems, and it becomes obvious to me, like, as we're talking and I know you think, like, maybe you would have known this before you signed her up, but I didn't. She didn't have diabetes. She has hyper reactive or reactive hypoglycemia, or something like that, right? And I start picking through her, you know, her entire health history, and it's been bad. She's had a really terrible period since she was, like, 1314, years old, super low iron and ferritin passes out. You know, is getting B 12 injections right now because she can't stay awake. Like, all of these things are, like, wrong with her, and I'm like, what are they going to do? And there's no answer. Like, she's like, I don't know, you don't even mean, like, the doctors don't say anything. So I said to her, I'm like, you wanna do something weird? I was like, here, and I opened up a chat GPT window, and I described her to chat GPT, and then every time she told me something about herself, I entered it into it, and then asked it what it thought she should do it so remarkably, agreed with what I told her before I hit Enter, wow. I was like, here's what I think I would do if I was you. And I don't want to the episode's been out for a while, by the time somebody hears this, but I was like, she's on a proton pump, a hit burner for like, six years, I think for three, six years, it's clearly blocking like, so she's got these terrible periods. She's losing a lot of blood, and then she's taking a medication for her acid reflux that's keeping her from RE absorbing iron. I said I'd get off the PPI. You have to do it slowly. It's not as simple. You can't just, like I think, you're not supposed to just stop taking it all at once. I'd get an iron infusion. I would continue with the B 12 and infusions, digestive enzyme to your meals, to try to help your digestion, to see if we can't help clear up this probably what's pressure on your your esophageal sphincter, which is probably giving the acid, right? And I said, I'd like you to take a vacitol for your PCOS, which she also had, by the way. I said, all that. And the goddamn chat GT came back, and it was like, and it said, all the same stuff, wow. And I said to her, I'm like, I'll send this to you. Can show it to your mom. You know, I said, don't listen to me like I'm a guy on the podcast, like I'm sitting in the spare bedroom of my house right now. Just in case you're wondering, I was like, but I think you should look at all this, because your doctor's only throwing patches on your problems, right? Like he's never gonna get you to the point where you're just like, oh, I don't have reflux anymore, you know? And I even explained little things to her, like, she's like, I don't, I don't eat throughout the day. I have one big meal. I said, that's actually could be one of the reasons you have reflux. You have a big full meal, it pushes down on on that, that sphincter down there, and it kind of opens it up and allows the it allows the acid to come up through into your esophagus. I'm like, you could end up getting, like, Barrett's esophagus from that, which is pre cancerous, and, like, all this stuff. And she's on top of all that, completely exhausted. And I'm telling you right now, I'm gonna go out on a limb and say something that'll make me sound like a douche bag to somebody, but if she doesn't come on a podcast to talk to somebody about it, she's gonna live the next 30 years of her life like that, yeah, for sure. You know what. I mean, that's no good. And imagine they found all the answers for and then at the end, we're like, Ah, you don't need that, right? Just what happened to you? Oh, what are you gonna do rob a bank? I don't know. Aren't there bank Robbies in Florida all the time? Don't people ride alligators in and then rob banks, right, right, yeah, all the time, lasso them with one of those bow constrictors and you're on your

Katie 1:01:25
way right. Get away on a manatee

Scott Benner 1:01:31
like Aquaman in those old cartoons, low

Katie 1:01:33
manatee. Oh, no,

Scott Benner 1:01:35
he would have been on a big Sting Ray, right, right, yeah. Are you old? Nothing on my Aquaman reference or no, no.

Katie 1:01:42
Well, I am old, but I don't know, not that old. Is

Scott Benner 1:01:47
there anything we haven't talked about that we should have? Oh,

Katie 1:01:49
probably something pop the mind. Not really. What do you mean? Probably.

Scott Benner 1:01:54
What are you worried that we you worried we forgot something? No, I'm looking at your list. I feel like we handled it, I

Unknown Speaker 1:02:00
don't know. Struggle with my weight, type

Scott Benner 1:02:03
one for 37 years, 38 now, because it takes a lot to get on the podcast,

Katie 1:02:06
I didn't know what list you had. What list did I make? A list I have been

Scott Benner 1:02:10
living with, type one for 37 years. I've always struggled with my weight, with age and menopause came insulin resistance. I've asked my endo 35 years if I could try a GLP Med, and he very readily agreed, my blood sugars have improved, insulin needs have decreased, and weight has decreased. Okay, go. That's it. That was six months ago. Oh,

Katie 1:02:30
yeah, and now I have one shot left. Can you believe that?

Scott Benner 1:02:34
What milligram are you up to now? Well,

Katie 1:02:37
I went all the way up to 12.5 but I had, because when I moved up, I still had some left in the fridge that I saved. So if I moved up to 7.5 and I had a few left of five, then I just kept them in the fridge. And, you know, moved up, so what I have left in the fridge right now is five. So that's my very last one of the five. That sucks. It's almost like I weaned myself back down.

Scott Benner 1:03:09
Have you been gaining weight? Or has your insulin needs been going up? I have

Katie 1:03:13
not gained no, it actually, it hasn't. It's been fine, okay?

Scott Benner 1:03:17
I hope it keeps up, so we'll see. Let's be honest, it's not going to I mean, if it does, then God bless, that's wonderful. But I mean, you could run into that situation where you don't gain weight and a lot of your insulin requirements were because of your weight.

Katie 1:03:31
I hope so, and I'm not. I have no problem also going to a compounding pharmacy. I would do that too, and I think five was fine for me, okay. Is especially if I just want to maintain what I've been taking for the last month. You know,

Scott Benner 1:03:50
we're still losing weight, though, right? Very slowly,

Katie 1:03:53
just a little bit, like, maybe a pound every week, or Yeah, I found I

Scott Benner 1:03:58
stopped losing weight at this point, yeah, yeah. But, you know, I got dehydrated when I traveled this weekend. Oh, really. And I'm not, like, dehydrated, like, Oh, what was me? My kidneys hurt and I'm in trouble. But, like, I just didn't drink as much because I was traveling, yeah, yeah. And I got home, I was four pounds lighter than when I left. And I did look in the mirror and thought, oh, there is, like, more out of my midsection here. Like, my midsection is flatter, like all that stuff. But I thought the minute I start drinking regularly again, like this, these pounds are coming back, for sure. And they absolutely did. So, yeah, but I don't that's not how I'm trying to lose weight, obviously. But it was just really interesting. Like, you get on a plane Friday morning, you get down there, like, you know, by the time I get everything together, I'm supposed to go to this dinner. I go to the dinner. I don't need very much the dinner, but that's fine, like, and then next day, very busy, yeah, all day I, you know, I had to get in a car at 3am Sunday morning to leave. I was on a plane by 5am on Sunday Yeah. Got home, didn't bother weighing myself, weighed myself, like, the next day. And I was like, oh my god, I'm I was 182 it's like, the lowest I've ever been. And I was like, this is gonna this will all be the first big glass of water I have. Like, I think this is over. So what happened? Yeah, I hope it works out for you. But if it doesn't like you seem hesitant to go to that other doctor. I wasn't able to figure out why while we were talking, but I would

Katie 1:05:26
No, I think I probably will. I think the only hesitation is that I just went to the previous one. He's in a whole different practice, as in, like, we have two, well, we have more than two main hospitals here in Jacksonville, like we have the Baptist network, and then we've got, like, the University of Florida network, and we've got Memorial and so he would be in a whole new network. So I just have to be switching. That would bother you networks a little bit, because when you switch your Endo, you kind of want to switch everybody, so not only your Endo, but your general practice doctor, and your everybody else you have. Can't

Scott Benner 1:06:15
you just see the Endo, just for the GLP, I could probably and then not seeing for anything else,

I suppose. Yeah,

it feels like you're making more out of this than there is,

Unknown Speaker 1:06:28
perhaps,

Scott Benner 1:06:31
because I've been looking for a real good reason why you're saying this, and I can't find one, so, yeah, just call him and be like, Hey, you helped my friend. My doctor is a jerk. Can you help me too? And he'll be like, Yeah, sure. And that should be the end of it,

Katie 1:06:45
don't you think, probably, yeah, just go do it all right, I'll give it a try. Because

Scott Benner 1:06:50
if you don't get the ball rolling, at least, if a month from now you're like, Oh, I've gained 10 pounds, and I'm using 15 more units of insulin every day or whatever, right? Then you're going to be like, Oh, I wish I would have started this. And if a month from now, you're like, you know what? I don't even need this. GLP, then God bless you, and then keep going. But at least you had your Dexcom, you know?

Katie 1:07:08
Yeah, that's why. I'll let you know. I will put it out there on the Facebook page. Thank

Scott Benner 1:07:13
you. I appreciate that. All right, go out there and make more friends that listen to the podcast. I like that.

Katie 1:07:18
I will. All right, I'll send me your way. Thank you. Hold

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#1383 I'm Not Calm

Tess is a mother of four, her third child has type 1 diabetes. He plays a lot of sports.

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Scott Benner 0:00
Here we are back together again, friends for another episode of The Juicebox Podcast.

Tess is the mother of four children, one of them who has type one diabetes. Her kids play a ton of travel sports, and her son's diagnosis was missed by their pediatrician.

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Tess 2:27
My name is Tess, and I have four children. I have a 15 year old, a 13 year old, an 11 year old, who is my type, one diabetic, and

Scott Benner 2:39
an eight year old. How'd you mess up the spacing on the last one? What do you mean? I messed it up. They're all two years apart until the third, right? Until the one's three years apart, right? Well, to get tired a lot.

Tess 2:53
Yeah, three's a lot, actually. When I told my parents, who helped us that out a lot, it's the only reason we have four kids. When I told them I was pregnant with the last they were just silent, and I had to tell them, You're supposed to say congratulations.

Scott Benner 3:05
They were like, but we're never gonna stop watching your children. I think, right. Well, I just figured you were considering getting divorced. Now you decided not to. That's where the extra year came from.

Tess 3:19
Nope. We always wanted four. Actually, my husband would have way more if I let him, but kids are expensive, so

Scott Benner 3:25
really, your husband would like more children. Yes, he loves kids. Can I ask? Is he one of those people who loves kids but it's not that involved? Or is he really super involved?

Tess 3:34
No, he's really involved. He's their coach. Half my kids coaches for all their sports and and he loves babies, kids. He just loves kids. I do too, but not like him wreak havoc on your body. So I was done after four.

Scott Benner 3:49
This is like, I can't do this again. That's enough. Was he in for another one? Yeah, oh yeah, he would be. He said something like, he was like, Hey, do you think we should have five kids? Yeah. Oh, you say Get away from me. And then you struck him with a bat. Is that correct? Correct? And now that bat is now leaning on your side table of your bed, exactly. It's over for you, buddy. Get back. That's amazing. Well, congratulations on I mean, I'll do what your parents wouldn't do. Congratulations on your four kids. Like, was there any indication that type one might be in your life? Is it, you know, in an extended family, or anything like that? Nope, no indication at all. We have no one in the family with it, no one. No one just hey, congratulations. Here it is. Gotcha. What about other stuff? Meaning, celiac, hypothyroidism, anything like that,

Tess 4:43
nothing. I don't know. Does eczema count? Yeah, two of my kids have kind of dry skin like, that's about it.

Scott Benner 4:50
I count eczema. It's not a big one, but, yeah, sure, right, then, that's it, gotcha, that's it. Don't be damn All right. Well, lucky you. Yeah, right. How did. How did it happen? What was the first sign? Because if you if you weren't looking for it, you don't know about it. I'm interested in how you figured it out.

Tess 5:06
Yeah, his story is kind of interesting. So in June, 2020 he was six years old, almost seven, and he wet the bed one night. And I was like, well, that's strange. You know, he never wets the bed. So the next night, Hey, buddy, you gotta go to the bathroom before you go to bed. And he did, but he wet the bed again, like, all right, this is weird. So the next night, all right, you're not drinking anything after 6pm and he did not wet the bed that night. But for the next few weeks, he was wetting the bed like three to four times a week. And I was like, This is strange. Like, this is this kid, once he was potty trained, that was it. He hasn't went to bed, you know, really, ever. Maybe the first couple moms said he was potty trained at three. So I decided to call the pediatrician, and I made an appointment. And at this point, I had checked with Dr Google, and of course, Dr Google will tell you that bed wetting is a sign of type one diabetes. I had a friend whose teenage son had been diagnosed about six months ago, so I did call her up and just ask. And she said, Well, it's, you know, it's very simple. The pediatrician will have you, you know, pee in a cup, and if there's any sugar in his urine, they'll they'll probably send you right to the hospital. I made the appointment. I packed a hospital bag because I really thought it might be that I didn't tell my son. I didn't want to scare him, so I put it in the back of my husband's car. I sent my husband because he is much better with doctors and hospitals and needles and all that stuff than me. And I was waiting for his call, and he called me up. I was out on a walk with my other son, who was three at that time, my husband called and said, Doctor says he looks great. Urine is fine. Vitals are good, you know? And I remember just bursting into tears of joy, like so happy that it wasn't diabetes. I did say, though, why is he wetting the bed? And the pediatrician had told my husband, well, you know, COVID had just shut down the whole world a few months ago in March, and this was beginning of June. And so the pediatrician had just said, you know, the kids, all their schedules are off, everything, their whole worlds have been rocked. You know, school shut down, everything shut down. He's probably just wetting the bed because of that so, well, great. You know, I don't have a kid who's a type one diabetic. That's wonderful.

Scott Benner 7:27
He's just peeing in his bed. And he's a little too old for that, but, okay, right? But

Tess 7:32
he just, you know, diabetes, COVID, yeah, that was like, in the middle of the week. And then that weekend, we went to the beach for just a little little getaway couple days, and my son was walking towards the water, like in his bathing suit, away from me, and I could see every rib in his back. And I thought, he's a skinny kid. All my kids are thin, but I'd never seen his ribs from the back before. Yeah. And actually turned to my friend and I said, Gosh, like, you know, just something doesn't seem right. He just doesn't seem well to me. But that pediatrician checked him out, said he was fine. So what do I know? I'm not a doctor. I

Scott Benner 8:09
have a friend who's a pediatrician who would tell you he's not a doctor, he's a pediatrician. But go ahead, interesting. Here's how he here's how he told me, one day he goes, my father's not a doctor, he's a dentist. I'm not a doctor, I'm a pediatrician. And I don't know if that's like a professional joke or not, but anyway, go. I apologize. You're talking to your friend on the beach. Your kid looks very thin. What'd you figure

Tess 8:30
out? Yeah, well, so we go home and he's still, you know, he's kind of wetting the bed, but that was really the only symptom at the time. You know, he did, he wasn't, didn't have the extreme thirst yet? Well, obviously, me seeing the ribs in his back indicated he was losing weight, but he was, he was skinny anyways, so I didn't notice it, you know, a drastic change. So we get home, my gut just said, just, he's not well. And so I called the pediatrician again. I called like the nurse line, just left a message. It had been one week, and I said, you know, he was checked out in the office last week, but I just some he just doesn't seem that well. By now, he was asking to take naps, which was very strange for him. He hadn't nap since he gave them up at two years old, so he was really tired. The nurse called me back and she said, Hey, I talked with the doctor, the pediatrician, if you will. And he said that, you know, everything was fine, but since you're still worried, he'll go ahead and order some blood work just to make you feel better. So she sent the orders over that Friday afternoon, and I went online to make an appointment. And again, like diabetes was out of my mind now because, you know, the doctor said it wasn't that so what was in your mind at that point? I really didn't know. Okay, I really wasn't sure, but I knew, like, something is very wrong with him. And so I went to make the blood work appointment. And it was Friday afternoon. I was gonna wait till Monday, and something in my gut said, don't wait till Monday. See if. There's appointments tomorrow morning, Saturday morning. So I checked and there was an appointment. So I booked it online. Saturday morning comes. I send my husband, because, again, I don't, I don't do that stuff. You know, he's, he's more calm than me with you

Scott Benner 10:13
wanted all these kids go to the blood work exactly.

Tess 10:18
That's his job and this relationship. And so my husband took him and my little, my little six year old going off to get blood work. He was scared, but he was so brave. And so my husband called me when he's done, he said, Oh, he was he was so brave. He did such a good job. I'm going to take him to 711 to get a Slurpee to celebrate how brave he was so perfect. You can imagine what, what a Slurpee does that night, my son got very sick. I ended up sleeping with him in his bed, and he was like smacking his lips like and his lips were all dry. Looking back now, he was severely dehydrated, and he was waking up to urinate every hour and a half. And I laid there and listened to him peeing, and I could not believe how much urine was coming out of that little body. I thought, how, how can he be producing this much urine? Yeah, he's tiny, and he just peed an hour and a half ago, and then he was going to the sink and just gulping water. And I knew, I knew he was so sick, but again, I what diabetes was out the doctor said. But I laid there that night thinking, I should, I should get up and take him to the hospital now. But again, I don't. I don't like hospital. So to been my, my husband's job, and he's not a middle of the night person. So I said, oh, we'll wait. We'll wait till the morning. No one gets

Scott Benner 11:33
sick at night here, we don't let that right? You can't, you can't. You know, I've had people on the podcast who discussed one person was diagnosed as, like a baby, and their family found them drinking out of

Tess 11:44
the toilet. Oh, I remember that. Yeah, that's, that's the

Scott Benner 11:47
draw. And then you were restricting his his liquid there for a little walk. Imagine how like, thirsty he was and how compliant he was to listen to that's really, yeah, okay, I'm sorry. Go ahead, poor kid. Yeah, look at you. No, I'm just kidding.

Tess 12:03
Why'd I have a fourth after that? Now it's Sunday morning, and now my son's vomiting. I call the pediatricians, obviously close, but I call the on call doctor. It's a large practice, so there's many pediatricians there. I leave a message. I explained, you know, he was just seen. It had been exactly 10 days since I had had him in the office. He was just seen. He checked out, but he's really sick now. I explained, what's going on. I explained that he had just gotten blood work yesterday morning, but I didn't know if blood work, you know, came in on Sundays or whatever. Right left the message. Got a call back within 10 minutes, and it was a different pediatrician than the one I had seen 10 days prior. And she said, I just saw his blood work. His blood sugar is extremely high. You've got to get him to a hospital right away. And she said, and I looked back at his urine sample from 10 days ago, and I'm not sure how my colleague missed it, but there was glucose in his urine back then, oh, we've got

Scott Benner 13:01
Yeah. So we got somebody who put their glasses on before they look at your stuff. That's nice, good. Did you say yeah? 10 days ago, I tried to tell you all this, nobody listened to me. Yeah. I'll wait to hear what happens next. Does it have something to do with you? Throwing something because I can't wait. I'm excited. Go ahead. No,

Tess 13:17
no. So, of course, I say it's also COVID, so only one parent is allowed to go right to the hospital. So guess who goes? Because, yeah, like hospitals, and I wanted to go to the local one, like, you know, the county one, because it's just closer. And the on call pediatrician said, Oh no, you need to go downtown, where there's a, you know, to a big university that has a pediatric endocrinologist, you know, on staff at all times. So she gave me a couple of options. We have some world renowned hospitals right in our area, here on the East Coast. And so I picked the one that I had heard of the most, and sent my husband off. And they got there and they said he was a few hours away from the ICU. He did not need to go into the ICU, but I suspect it may be because it's such a big hospital. They have an entire pediatric endocrinology floor alone, and so I'm thinking maybe they were just better equipped to handle it because he was so sick he was in DKA,

Scott Benner 14:20
yeah, maybe his blood gasses were on the right side of horrifying that they were able to manage it somewhere else. Who knows? They didn't tell you, right? Yeah,

Tess 14:28
no, they didn't tell me.

Scott Benner 14:30
Can Can I stop you for a second? Sure, nobody likes hospitals. Why do you extra not like them?

Tess 14:36
I'm not calm, like my husband has a very calm demeanor. I get very anxious, and I was afraid, like my son would pick up on that, and wouldn't, I wouldn't be calm for him and my husband has the more calming presence when it comes to, like, scary stuff like that, like hospitals and stuff. Do you think

Scott Benner 14:54
people come on the podcast intent on naming their episodes because I'm not calm? Is a strong contour. Under for you, like a wonderfully declarative statement, because you're very You seem very calm now, and you're like, I'm not calm. And I'm like, oh, okay, so you were worried that you'd freak the kid out.

Tess 15:12
Yes, exactly okay. And I'm more calm now, Scott, because after my son's diagnosis and being completely on edge for about six months, I had to, had to go on a little medicine to help me be a little calmer. Oh, you're calmer now, yes, because every blood sugar alarm had me, you know, quaking and so do you

Scott Benner 15:31
get that adrenaline kick when you hear it?

Tess 15:33
Yes? And like, scared, yeah, in the beginning, yeah. Would

Scott Benner 15:37
it not go away? Then

Tess 15:38
it depended how bad the low blood sugar was. We had some scary lows in the beginning. I

Scott Benner 15:44
say, Okay, we'll hear about that later. Okay, sorry, back to the hospital. You and that guy that wanted all these babies are yes, you know, you split up the duties. You've got the three sleep. Did you have only three kids at that point? Or do you have four at that

Tess 15:57
point even? No, I had four. The fourth one was about three years old. Okay, so you're

Scott Benner 16:01
at home with your the other he's at the hospital. They move him and what do they what happens? Because I feel like something's about to happen.

Tess 16:10
Yeah, this, this is the, this is the punch line, I guess. So, the next day, Monday, my husband gets a call from the pediatrician who had missed the sugar, the glucose in his urine, and he apologized profusely. He did not make any excuses. My husband said he was very sincere. He said, You know, there's no excuse. I simply missed it.

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Tess 17:37
and I'm so sorry. I was devastated when I heard that you guys were in the hospital with this, and here's the kicker, he said, and I should have known, because I'm a type one diabetic myself, and I was diagnosed around six years old when I started wetting the bed.

Scott Benner 17:52
I don't know why. I didn't think of it, right? That sounds so familiar. No, no, no, I think he's fine, right? Did your husband laugh at him?

Tess 18:04
I think my husband was more pleasant than I would have been to me. That's even worse, like, you know this disease,

Scott Benner 18:10
I know for certain, my response would have been, get the out of here. Look, that's exactly what I would have said if you said that to me. Oh, my God. Well, that's crazy, but okay, yeah, and it was nice of him to be so direct, because I think in a litigious world, people don't usually admit that they don't do anything, right? So that was, that was kind of him. You guys were accepting of his apology, or did you go toilet paper his house later? So

Tess 18:34
we actually had, you know, I knew from here on out, you know, he's my son would be seeing a pediatric endocrinologist quarterly. So we still needed a pediatrician for the minor illnesses throughout his life, and I didn't want to see that man ever again. And my husband said, well, don't you want our son's pediatrician to have the same disease that he has and really understand it? And I said, Oh, you have a point there. I'll tell

Scott Benner 18:59
you what I would have thought, I would have thought he's in our debt now he's going to try extra hard for us. That's how I would have thought of it.

Tess 19:08
That's true. I didn't think of it like that, but I my husband. I was like, alright, you have a point.

Scott Benner 19:14
Who won this little battle. So we did stay with

Tess 19:17
him. He was he was older. He was in his like, 60s, I think. And so about a year and a half after this is interesting, he announced his retirement. He wanted to spend more time with his wife and kids, and we my son was pretty healthy, other than the diabetes, so we didn't have to see him a lot, but he was kind of interesting at the practice. He was didn't have the best bedside manner, but all my friends whose kids went to this practice. We called him the MacGyver of doctors, because he was the guy who could figure out the most obscure things, like he was really good at that stuff. I had a friend whose son was sick, and he figured out, I want to say, f pies. Have you heard of this f pies? Yeah, I. Gets like an allergy to the protein and meat. I don't know I I could be wrong every maybe you need to Google it. Scott, it was something strange, and he figured it out when, like no one else could, he couldn't figure out the his own disease that he had when it was staring him in the

Scott Benner 20:18
face. But maybe his blood sugar was low while I'm just looking at it. Well,

Tess 20:21
I figured if he was in his 60s, he was he had diabetes for over 50 years, so I can't imagine the, you know, the changes he saw over his lifetime.

Scott Benner 20:30
No, I see he saw a lot of changes. And now you would wonder, did he go with them or not? Because sometimes people don't.

Tess 20:36
He did show my son. Our first meeting with him was like a zoom call, I think, after the diagnosis, and because it was still COVID, and he did show my son, I think he had the tandem pump, okay, yeah. But after he announced his retirement, and two months later, he was in a single car accident and was killed, oh my god, yeah. And to this day I wonder, like, was it a blood sugar issue? You know? Horrible. Yeah, Jesus,

Scott Benner 21:05
I came out of nowhere. Jesus, right, if I told you what I was what thought I was pushing out of my head when you told me that poor man was killed in a car accident, I can't even tell you now because it's too inappropriate. I'm going to tell you when we're done recording. Remind me, hold on a second. I literally can't, because I don't know how other people's brains work, but while you're talking and pausing, my brain fills in what I think you're gonna say, and I start writing around that. But once in a while, like the humorous part of me fills in stupid instead, instead of like, conversation, thank you. No, that's lovely. Except you were, like, we were on a zoom call, and he was, he showed my son, he showed my son his and you kind of like, and I just kept thinking, Do you know what I was thinking? I'd let it go, like, oh my god, this really went off the rails, because that happened a lot during zoom. Guys were like, not sure their cameras were on. You know what? I mean? Oh, yeah. Also, what are guys doing while they're working? That's another story. There were one too many of those, like news stories

Tess 22:11
during COVID. Yeah, I heard a few after the first

Scott Benner 22:14
one came out. I was like, All right, now we're all being extra careful now, right? No, no. Okay. Anyway, I wasn't thinking that we'll move on. The poor man died in a car accident. That's horrible. Did you just tell me that to shock me, or does that advance the story somehow?

Tess 22:29
No, that was it like it was just, it was a wild diagnosis story, for sure. And that was, like the culminating event that was like, Wow. You know, he just retired to spend he had sent a letter to all his patients. You know, I'm gonna spend time with my more time with my wife and kids. And

Scott Benner 22:45
could happen so fast. I had a small accident recently while we were on vacation, of all things, and it was a split second, like, just nobody's fault, craziest, little weird thing, like, you know, it was, like, kind of a low speed accident. Nobody was hurt or anything like that. But as I've, I've as I've looked back over like, 1000 times in my head, I'm like, like, my god, like, that's it felt like I was like, walking, and I stepped off a cliff, like it came out of nowhere. And as it was happening, I'm like, Oh, it's too late now, whatever's gonna happen is gonna happen, and that's that, you know, so just really, I mean life, I don't wanna say life is fragile, but it is, and, like, the fragility of it is it shouldn't be lost. Like, I'm gonna go home and spend time, like, imagine he was able to retire in his early 60s. He was probably so excited.

Tess 23:38
Maybe he was older than that? Yeah, I don't know. I mean, 60s or 70s definitely had all white hair, but, um, yeah, it was sad. And I wanted to ask some of the other pediatricians there, but that was their co worker and colleague, and I didn't want to ask, what happened? Hey, like, what do you know? What? Okay. I mean, I found the article online, and I just know it was like a single vehicle. So it made me think, gosh, did it? Was it related to, like, a blood sugar or something? Somebody

Scott Benner 24:04
I work with passed away recently. There's part of you that's like, I wonder what happened. And then there's like, the common sense party is like, do not ask. It's none of your business. You know what I

Tess 24:13
mean, right? I'm always curious, though. I always want to know that the details like that,

Scott Benner 24:17
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Tess 26:43
not me. No, no, I'm on the straight and narrow. Okay,

Scott Benner 26:47
I think you have punch with you during late games, but your son's diagnosed. He was six at the time, right?

Tess 26:56
Okay, he was let out. He was diagnosed on Father's Day. My poor husband, I sent him off to the hospital on father's day, June 21 2020

Scott Benner 27:05
Wow, to go pick up your kid. Yep, to go and

Tess 27:08
and then my son turns seven, a little like a like, about two weeks later, did

Scott Benner 27:14
he have to stay by himself at times in the hospital because of COVID? Or were you able because somebody was with Arden? We were there for five days, and Kelly was always with her. And then, if not, it was me, but were you not able to do that?

Tess 27:28
Yeah, someone was with him at all times. But actually they wouldn't discharge him until they watched both parents, like, give him an injection. So I had to come to the hospital one day. You know, every time the the diabetes educators came in, I would have to get on Zoom, and my husband would get me on his phone and not zoom, but like FaceTime, and my husband would be and he'd like angle the phone at the diabetes educator so I could be in on the education. But I did have to go to the hospital the one day, and I remember, like the security guard at the bottom, like, you know, she could see, she was like, there's already an adult up there. And I said, Well, I have to be up there. And they're like, only one adult allowed, you know? And I had to explain, like, no, no, I like, I have to go up there because they have to watch me give my son an injection before they will discharge him. Yeah,

Scott Benner 28:19
I know this isn't your fault, but you're making this worse. Please, let me go upstairs, right? Yeah, those COVID rules were fun. Are you? Is your I was gonna say your glitchy nature, but I don't know where that came from exactly. Did it not allow you to help with the diabetes? This end up falling more to your husband? Oh,

Tess 28:37
no, I That's when I found you. I I'm gonna research. I'm gonna I dived in head first. Dove in, I should say. But I didn't love giving the the injections, so when my husband was home, I'd have him do that. I didn't change a Dexcom deck. I hated the noise that the g6 made, and so I did not change the Dexcom for probably the first year my husband did that, but it was COVID. So my son was home with us for an entire year like I didn't have to worry about, you know, sending him off to school, like we had an entire year where he never left us. Was that about to learn about it? Yes, absolutely. A silver lining for us of COVID Was he was with us for a year straight.

Scott Benner 29:20
For me, my silver lining of COVID was not going to restaurants save so much money. I was like, Oh, my God, how much are we spending at restaurants? Exactly, right. But no, I like that idea of not being rushed back to work and everybody kind of being able to be around and but do you have like, were you anxious before this? Yes,

Tess 29:40
like, on and off, it's not terrible, but when it comes to health and medical things, that's where I get

Scott Benner 29:48
pretty anxious about for you and your husband, or more about the kids. It

Tess 29:52
definitely got worse when I had kids. Yeah, I don't care as much about him or I, but you know, you have these little kids and, like, they're your life. Test.

Scott Benner 30:00
Why couldn't you just say I don't care that much about him, and then not say where I because it would have been hilarious.

Tess 30:05
I was just trying to be diplomatic. I don't

Scott Benner 30:07
really care about him. I mean, me a little more so. But um, have you stopped and thought, what if something happens in one of these other ones? I'm not gonna be able

Tess 30:17
to manage? I think now we could manage because we're four years in I have had it on my radar to do the trial net. I actually said something to my oldest, who's 15, almost 16, my daughter, and I said, you know, I think I want to get the rest of you tested. And she got very upset and said, I don't want to know. Oh, and I thought, Well, I see that side too. Would you want to know you're gonna eventually get some life altering disease. I don't know. I mean, I think

Scott Benner 30:44
we can make the argument that that doctor would have liked to have known if he was having an accident, right? Yeah, but she's old enough to decide. Also, I mean, I guess you could do the blood work and not tell her, that would be weird, yes, yeah. Also, if you want to know where I'm going to get notes from woke people there. It is going to be right there. It is my duty to let you know that children are autonomous. I'm like, I know. I'm just, I'm just telling you, the woman could get a blood test for her kid and not tell her the alchemist she wanted to. It's completely,

Tess 31:11
I was actually thinking of it, because she just had her like, 15 year well, visit, and they ordered just routine blood work. And I thought, well, contact, try on that and just say hey. And, you know, take a little more blood and send some of it off, or try on that some blood over,

Scott Benner 31:26
of course you did, because it's a thing you want to know. Is that, right? Yeah,

Tess 31:30
well, and I listened to some of your episodes about T Z, o, t Z, yes. And so that seemed very promising. I just don't love that it's an infusion right now, I keep thinking maybe it'll eventually be a pill or something easier for kids to take, but

Scott Benner 31:49
I just interviewed somebody who did it recently. They had nothing but good things to say about the process. But in fairness, they had to relocate to a hotel for like, 14 days, go in every day and get the infusion. Now the mom said, she said one of this episode's not out yet, but she said one of the Silver Linings for her was, she's like, my kid is older. I was never going to spend two weeks with him the way we did, like playing games and like hanging out and stuff. And she's like, it was kind of nice. So, you know, you can find a silver lining a lot of things, right? Right? But I have to tell you, if my I'm gonna sound like a hypocrite now, but if my 15 year old told me I don't want to know, I'd say, Okay, well, then we're not gonna look you wanna respect that? Yeah, as much as it's fun for me to play both sides of the of the coin when we're talking here, I would, I would respect what they said for sure.

Tess 32:37
The other side is like, if there's something out there that could delay the onset and eventually, could it? Could you keep getting the tea sealed and it will keep delaying it eventually, like that, you never get it. Like if I could do something to prevent another one of my children from getting this terrible disease, then you would, right? Yeah. So yeah, it's

Scott Benner 32:59
yeah, be a tough lesson to learn in hindsight, that's for sure, right? Exactly, especially if you're only 15. So then go back to my old argument of, what else would you let a 15 year old decide about, right? Yeah, nothing. Right, yeah. So what if you told the kid like, look, we'll test, and I promise not to tell you, you know the answer of the test. Of course, if there's nothing wrong, you'll never know. But that, even that doesn't make sense, because if there is something wrong, you are going to bring it up. So it's not like you're going to find out that they're, you know, in stage one, type one diabetes, and not say anything, right? Yeah, so her, her argument doesn't hold a lot of water, does it? No.

Tess 33:40
And then I thought, well, I should just take all of the all the other kids, like everyone has to go. I believe they will test parents as well, right? Of type one diabetics? Maybe, yeah, trial net. So I'm like, just make it a family affair, and everyone's got to go give blood for this. Also

Scott Benner 33:57
that new sponsor screen for type one. I think that if you go to screen for type one.org, is that what it is? Yeah, you think right now, they're like, Oh, good, real happy. We bought that ad from you. I'm like, Well, I'm like, I think it's this sorry screen for type one. Give me a second. That cracks me up for some reason. Let me find it real quickly. They're probably like, wow, money, well spent. This guy, this guy finally brings it up in a casual conversation. Can't remember the link. Yeah, I take their point if that's what they're thinking right now, screen for type one.com, there's links in the show notes to it, so you can learn more about it there. I agree with you, because if she's gonna get it, she's gonna get it. Now, what she's saying is, if I'm gonna get it when I'm 27 I don't want to know when I'm 15, right? Which I get? Yeah, what you're thinking is, if you're gonna get it next year, and we could do something about that, why don't we do that and make it take two years? Maybe you know something, right? She didn't like that argument. We

Tess 34:55
didn't really delve into that. She was, she kind of shut it down. I would. I would, I would want to know, yeah, I think for any of my kids. But again, I've been thinking about it for two years. I still haven't done it for any of them. Well,

Scott Benner 35:07
you went on the anti anxiety medication. Now, if you went off that, you'd get it done tomorrow, right? You're

Tess 35:12
onto something. Scott, what'd they give you there? Well, Bucha, no, I don't even know what it is. It's just a, I think it's an antidepressant

Scott Benner 35:20
test. The amount of people who say to me, Oh, I take a thing. I don't know what it's called, floors me. It really does, like, you really don't know what it's called.

Tess 35:27
It's a it's a law. It's hard for it to pronounce, slight syllable. Scott, yeah, come on. Did

Scott Benner 35:34
it have any other like effects that you didn't want, or did you just see a benefit from it? Nope.

Tess 35:40
I just noticed, like, if my son was having, like, a low blood sugar, I, like, I could feel my heart wanting to start racing, me wanting to get so worried. But, like, it couldn't, like, it was blocking that, like, flight or fight response.

Scott Benner 35:53
We didn't help. I mean, did you try anything else? No, no, that was the first thing you tried. Okay, yeah, that worked, huh? All right. Like, well, right on. I'm glad you found something that helps. There's times when Arden's like, alarm will go off overnight, and my wife is like, Arden is Arden, okay? And I'm like, wow, hold on, I'm not even awake yet. Let me figure it out. And then I'll look and I'll say, oh, you know what? It's just a compression low and, you know, don't worry about it. And, like, I go back to sleep in 15 minutes later. I'm like, what is that light? That light is Kelly on her phone because she can't go back to sleep. And I'm like, Hey, we already looked and she's good, go back to sleep. She goes, it's not that easy. And I'm like, oh, okay, so

Tess 36:30
I'm with Kelly, yeah, I'm gonna stay up and watch it, make sure it's a compression low for at least 20 minutes before I'm gonna go back to sleep. It

Scott Benner 36:38
ruins the next two hours for her. She's just like, she's like, my heart, my heart is pounding, so I feel her, yeah, I think it's that thing, like, whatever happens the first time the kid comes out of the hoo ha whole like, it definitely throws you guys off. Yeah, it does, really. It turns everything into, like, high intensity that keep the baby alive. Like, guys have it too, but we like it comes and goes. You know what? I mean?

Tess 37:03
Yes, yeah, yeah, my husband's much more calm with that type of stuff. I'm the one. If there's something small, I immediately think it's big. And he's like, No, it's not a big deal now. Now, when my son was diagnosed, he was still saying the day I was packing him off to the hospital. He was saying, I think it's just a stomach bug. And I said, No, we're

Scott Benner 37:24
also boys, so you can't He probably just like fell. So, right? Listen, I have that thing. Somebody last last night, I did a late night ask me anything in the Facebook group. You guys should all be in the private Facebook group if

Tess 37:39
you're not. I saw that, right? I was gonna write to you and say, Are you gonna make me nervous tomorrow when I record with you? That's not

Scott Benner 37:45
my fault. That's you. Oh, we already figured that out earlier. And so what did somebody say to me? They asked me, I forget what they asked me, but I ended up admitting if I let people down, it really bothers me. An example that would be like, kind of commiserate to how you or Kelly might feel in the situations you're describing. It's gonna sound silly, but Arden was leaving for college last week on Friday, and we had tickets Thursday night to see, like, the 15th anniversary showing of Coraline in the movie theater, which is, like my wife's favorite movie. And it was gonna be me and Arden and Kelly and one of Arden's friends. Why did Cole not go? I shouldn't say here, because he's an adult, but he saw it when he was young, and it scared the hell out of him, and he still doesn't want to see the freaking movie. So he's like, No, thank you. And I'm like, Okay. I'm like, you know, I'm like, you know, you're 24 now. And he goes, I don't care. I don't want to see this movie. So it's like one of those phantom events, things like, you know, like, it's not really through the movie theater, it's like a third party that sets it up. I bought these tickets months ago for Kelly, like, I saw that they were on sale. I bought them right away, and I knew she'd be super excited. And then it ended up being like, this weird thing where now we have to go the night before Arden's leaving for college, like, it just landed on a bad day, but whatever. And earlier in the day, Kelly's like, hey, what time's that showing again? I said, Oh, it's 730 I pulled out my phone. It's right there in my calendar. I touch the calendar thing, it launches the email shows the code. I'm like, Ah, I'm all set. This is perfect. We get to the theater, and I go back into my calendar, and I touch the link, and it launches the email, and the email won't open, and now I can't scan it to get in. So I'm outside, I'm calling my son. I'm like, Hey, can you go on my computer? Like, that's not working. The woman at the front's like, if you don't have this email, you can't come in. I'm like, but I have the reference number. She just doesn't matter. So I'm outside, I'm on the phone, and my daughter's friend, who I've known for since she was a little girl, like she picked a flower off a bush and she like, touched it to my neck. And Arden said, I thought you were gonna punch her like she came up behind me and touched me. She's like you reacted so harshly, and then I looked at you, and she goes, Dad, you. Face was purple, and I was like, was it? And she goes, dude, you looked like you could have run through a wall. And I And she's like, why were you so upset? I said I wasn't upset. And she goes, No, you were really, really upset. And I said I wasn't upset. I was sad. And she goes, what I said, I felt like I let everybody down. And she goes to go to a movie, and I'm like, Yeah, I probably have problems, but I felt like I let everyone down. And I I knew I could get us into that theater, but my wife was standing there and looking at me, and I knew I had to deal with it the way she wanted me to deal with it, because the woman at the front said, you can't get in without that email. And my wife's like a rule follower. So now that's the new rule we're doing. And I would have just gone and found the manager and been like, Listen, man, we bought these four seats. I have them right here in my calendar. We'll go sit in them. If somebody else shows up, just sit on them. Fair enough. I'll get up. But that's not going to happen, because I bought these seats. I would have talked my way into that in three seconds, right? So anyway, so I pulled myself like, I felt myself overreact to being touched on the neck. And I was like, Oh my God. Like, you're not okay. Like, so I, like, kind of took a deep breath. I went back to the woman at the front. I was like, Look, I have this reservation number. And she goes, Well, I can't get you into that. I was like, well, can someone else? And she goes, Oh yeah, probably the manager. I was like, Oh, do you think I could speak to him, please? So anyway, he gets us into 20 seconds with the, you know, the number, and as we're standing there waiting, somebody's in the bathroom, Arden goes, you okay? And I was like, Yeah, I'm absolutely fine. I know you think I'm upset, but I'm not. I'm not upset. I'm not angry. I was just, I just, I felt like I let everybody down. And she's like, No man, we're good. And I was like, okay, she goes, you know, we could have just bought four more seats and gone in. It wasn't sold out. Anyway, I don't that's the closest I can come to understanding what you're talking about, yeah, yeah, yeah. Anyway, it's a long story that ends with people listening, going, Oh, wow, his parents did get divorced. I really do think it's like a I think it's a side effect of that, to be perfectly honest, yeah, yeah. But nevertheless, at least, you know, I'm not going to let you down if I'm with

Tess 42:22
you. I know Scott, you probably don't remember this. This was something else I wanted to mention. But a year after my son was diagnosed, we were at the beach again, and it was late. He his blood sugar. He was in the 40s, and we had pumped him full of so much sugar, and he was like, physically sick. Could not eat any more sugar. And I appealed in your Facebook group. Just what do I do my son, you know, he won't even take any more sugar. And I get message from you from Juicebox Podcast, and it just has this long number, and I write back, and I say phone number question mark, and I said, I'm on the East Coast too. Like you, Scott. I know it's late. It was like, two in the morning. I was like, did you want me to call you tomorrow? And you wrote now,

Scott Benner 43:08
oh, that was I do. Go ahead. Keep telling the story, yeah, because I think I come off like a hero in this Go ahead. Go ahead. Yeah,

Tess 43:15
like, 2am and and I was like, oh my god, Scott. Scott Benner wants me to call him. And I had gotten my by now, like, my son's asleep, his blood sugar was, like, steady, at least in like, the high 50s. And I was like, Oh my God, you let me call you and help me walk through it. And I remember joking. We were joking, if my husband came out, he'd be like, Who are you talking to? And I would have to say Scott from Juicebox. And it sounds like that's Jake from State Farm,

Scott Benner 43:45
exactly. It's that State Farm commercial, like, Who are you talking, right? And my husband say,

Tess 43:50
well, he sounds hideous. I don't know if you remember that commercial, but it was so funny. I remember

Scott Benner 43:55
very I guess, too well, actually. And why did they get away from that? Just to give Patrick my homes all that money, I guess. But it was a great commercial. Hey, I don't want to die. I don't want to go too far into the State Farm commercial thing. But I was personally embarrassed for Andy Reid when they made him say nuggies in a State Farm commercial. I just want to say that that was horrible. I agree. Anyway, we're on the phone. What did I did I say anything helpful? Or did I just act like a sounding board so you could relax.

Tess 44:22
You were like a sounding board by then, and like his blood sugar. And you were like, Well, what did he eat? And I was like, wow, you know, or at the beach, he had pizza and I went for ice cream. And you were like, you don't go on vacation anymore. That just messes everything.

Scott Benner 44:37
Rock solid information for me,

Tess 44:39
right? But no, I think, you know, it was just all the physical activity, like on the beach and stuff, was just we needed to way adjust his, you know, his car ratio and and things.

Scott Benner 44:51
You don't realize that the first time, you know, like, you're seeing all that food, and you're like, I'm gonna, I know how to Bolus for this. I'm gonna do it. And. Don't take into account the running around and the heat and the swimming and that late and low thing that happens at two o'clock in the morning for some reason, and you know, all that other stuff, you figure it out that. Mean, have you figured it out now you go to the beach now without trouble? Yeah.

Tess 45:14
But you know, he my son, he's always been very sensitive to insulin, so it just, I just still don't feel like we have a, like, tight control, like it's just, it's so unpredictable with him. He's a he's a big athlete. He plays travel baseball and travel ice hockey with his sports and activities. He's a very active kid. It just affects his insulin needs, but it's just so unpredictable. So, you know, I hear a lot of your guests, and after they've been listening to you, you know, their a one, Cs are awesome in the fives or sixes, and like, we cannot get him, he's right around seven. And I cannot one one time about a year ago, dropped to 6.9 but I just, I want better for him.

Scott Benner 45:57
What's the management style that you use,

Tess 46:00
he's on the Omnipod five, and that that has helped a lot. He was on the arrows at first, where it wasn't talking to the Dexcom, and we struggled a lot. Still, the Omnipod five has helped, but it doesn't seem to be able to keep up with his highs and his lows as well as we'd like. And it's interesting, when we talk to his pediatric endocrinologist, we actually see an NP who is in the diabetes clinic there at the big hospital. And she's always like, no, he's doing great. And I'm always like, I don't think I mean, he's doing good enough. And I imagine she sees so many kids who probably are doing a lot worse. So in the grand scheme of things, for her, he's doing pretty well. But

Scott Benner 46:48
yeah, he's doing well the Juicebox world.

Tess 46:50
I feel like we can do better, like so many,

Scott Benner 46:55
in a common sense world, like I think you're right too, because I listen, I just interviewed a woman the other day. She's an adult now, but she said from 13 to like 26 she was in double digit, a one CS, and for a couple years, had a 14, right? And if you're the doctor who sees that a lot, every day, you see a seven, and you're like, lady, I don't know what your business perfect, you know? And I get that perspective, but you're saying, you know, is there a way for you to help me get just into the sixes, even, like, so I would ask you, what do you think is happening? Is it excursions at meals? Is it highs two or three hours after he eats? Is he getting low and then you're correcting, and then it's popping up or like, where do you think you're like, where you want to trim from when you think of that a one say he tends

Tess 47:45
to go high at night, and the pump can't seem to like, bring him down. And we've adjusted, you know, he has practice between all his sports almost every night of the week. So he eats like a meal, you know, before practice. But when he gets home at eight or nine at night, he's eating again, yeah, but the highs happen hours after eating, which makes you think, Oh, is it a basal thing? But that's not something you really adjust on the five you should it should be adjusting. It

Scott Benner 48:12
makes me think that if he's eating late at night, then he goes to bed, your digestion slows down. That food sits in his stomach longer, and it's pushing his blood sugar up. That's what it makes me think. That

Tess 48:22
makes think. That makes sense because, because if we give him all of it, like up front, usually it's low, he will go low, and then he treats and then he goes to sleep and goes high. So wonder if we should, like, maybe how high between 202

Scott Benner 48:37
50, and how much insulin would fix it. That's the thing.

Tess 48:42
It's so unpredictable. One day one unit brings them down 150 and the next time it won't touch it. Does that have

Scott Benner 48:51
anything to do? Do you think with the density or the fat content of the food he's eating? Do you see what I'm saying? Like, if one day a unit works and one day units too much. Is that the difference between a cheeseburger after practice and a ham sandwich after practice, you know what I mean, like, like, is it just a grease and protein thing? Maybe I don't think so. We're,

Tess 49:14
you know, we, we tend to take that into account when we're dosing him. What

Scott Benner 49:19
about activity at practice? Is there any way to track if, if, like, are you talking about baseball or hockey right now both

Tess 49:25
he Yeah, he both is going on right now. Yeah, it's fall season for travel baseball and hockey season just lasts forever.

Scott Benner 49:31
How tall is he? He's short. Oh, I'm gonna try that hard. A lot of it's about how tall you are once you get to college. So don't tell him that now to crush him. But if I told my kid that when he was your son's age, he would have been like, it doesn't matter. And I would have been like, oh, but it's going to my first thought was, why don't you try to do I know it's on the pod five, so you can't do an extended Bolus, but why don't you do like a two Bolus thing, like Bolus enough to stop a spike when he eats that late night meal? Go and then wait 90 minutes and Bolus the rest of it and see if you can get ahead of that latent high. That's that's sticky with a with that. I mean, that might work. Yeah, yeah. We can try that. Yeah. I think you just have to spread the insulin out a little bit. Because, you know, with the algorithm, you tell it, it's 30 carbs. It goes in. The algorithm doesn't think, Oh, two hours from now, if you have like, a fat or protein rise, I'm gonna, like, treat that like it's just gonna, it's gonna do what it does, right? It's, it does this. This micro Bolus is the but they call it non, they pod five, right? There's those little micro boluses. And, I mean, really, that's really just a pushing up of the basal, which is not going to cut into, like, a significant impact. If there is one there

Tess 50:45
exactly, I find myself overriding the pump a lot and needing to give, like, a big Bolus, but like that defeats the purpose, like we should be able to get it.

Scott Benner 50:55
Yeah, now you're awake, so maybe, maybe that's it, like, spread the carbs out over a longer timeline. Maybe that'll help it. Yeah, we'll try that with the shot. Also, if anyone's listening, I don't know if that's actually gonna work or not. I'm just saying, like, it's what I think it's what I would do if I was in your situation. Yeah, thanks. We'll try that. Yeah, why not? Right? Did your husband just make all these kids to try to get one of them to play a college sport? Is that? What's really going

Tess 51:21
on here? Maybe but the amount of money we're shelling out, all four of my kids play two travel sports a piece, so the amount of money we're shelling out, I think, is going to end up being the equivalent of the cost of college. Holy

Scott Benner 51:32
hell. What do you guys have, like an AI startup over there? You're making a bunch of money. What's going on? No

Tess 51:38
report. So I had to borrow my neighbors these Apple headphones somewhere, and had to borrow them from my from my

Scott Benner 51:43
name. They don't know that you said that before we started recording. That's right, yeah, I will tell you my my son said to us once in college, like, because he got a fair amount of money in college, right? And he's like, and I saved this much money going to college because I played baseball. And I was like, Dude, you don't think we spent that money when you were like, younger, like, what do you think a trip to like, you know, Florida costs, you know, what do you think? What do you think? Like, travel ball costs like, I remember travel balls being like, $3,000 a season. And, yeah, I'm sure it's

Tess 52:16
qualified for a tournament in Canada.

Scott Benner 52:19
Oh, last year we can't come. That's what you would have heard from me. We're busy. To

Tess 52:23
Canada. Where'd you go? Sarnia, right up past Detroit.

Scott Benner 52:29
I feel like you're making that up. Isn't that a book where people live in a closet? Narnia, oh, that's probably the same thing. Yeah. No, I would have been like, we're busy that day. Sorry, I can't do that. I eventually figured out, and I would say this to anybody that's listening, the right travel team for your kid is one where they play, and it's not expensive. It doesn't need to be expensive. They just need to play. And you know, if you're on a great team and you're only playing half the innings or you're not a starter, it's, you'd rather be on a half ass team and play every day. It's about playing more.

Tess 53:06
So, right? Yeah, and I think just keeping them busy, they're busy with sports, they're hopefully less likely to get into meth trouble or other things.

Scott Benner 53:15
Yes, by the way, I bring that up because I was interviewing a woman the other day who was describing her life, her hell scape. I think it's it's out now. And she says, you know, at some point her parents get divorced. Her sister was, like, four years older than her, so she went to her sister for advice, who didn't live at home anymore. And you know what, her sister gave her meth. I was like, Oh, okay. Sometimes I think I said it to her. I was like, do you hear how crazy this is? Because I think sometimes people are in situations they don't even they don't hear it anymore, you know, right? It's so funny. Like, I loved the time that my kids played sports, and they they loved it too, and when they stopped loving it, we didn't like when Arden was like, I don't want to play anymore. We're like, Well, fine, don't you know? Like, I my feelings weren't hurt or anything like that. It's absolutely fine. There's no way to know at this age what it feels like when it ends and it just it ends so abruptly. It's horrifying, like you won't be ready for it.

Tess 54:15
No, that's why you keep having more and then always be another one in sports.

Scott Benner 54:20
What a plan pass. I didn't think of it that way. If I just made 17 kids, I'd always be at a baseball game, right? Have I ever talked on the podcast about my son's last college game? Not that I remember, oh my god, he came up the bat in like, the seventh inning of a double header, and he was hitting well in the game, and you could see him, like, you know, how baseball works, like, first he got it, you know, he walked, and then he's, like, in a single, like, you could feel it coming, you know, and in the seventh inning, and he leads off the inning, and it's college baseball. I'm talking about, like, dead center. It's 400 feet dead center, like, right? Like, it's a, you're. You're playing in a professional size baseball stadium. And first pitch, he hit that ball dead center, and the and the kid in center field caught it with his back up against the wall and his hand up in the air, like he just he missed, he missed the lead off first pitch, home run by three feet. It was such a good ball. And I remember thinking, man, his next at bat. I can't wait to see his next at bat. And then they lost that game, so the second game of the double header was inconsequential. So the coach sat the starters and let everybody else play. Oh, that's tough. And I sat there like thinking, like the wait that was it, like, it's over, you know? Like, he was just like, right? He just like, he's so close, like, today, and like, he just needs one more, like, one more at bat. He's gonna, he's gonna go crazy. And as I'm feeling that, and then I'm like, oh my god, it's not over today. It's over, over like, there's no next week, there's no next year. There's no reason to, like, we could throw his baseball glove away right now. That kind of over, oh, that's so sad. Oh, Tess it. That's not the sad part. The sad part is that when I looked for him, like, once, I gathered myself, like to make eye contact with him to see if he was okay. I couldn't find him. He wasn't in the dugout, he wasn't on the field. It was in between games. He had probably just heard he wasn't playing in the second game. And I couldn't visual I couldn't locate him, and so I started walking around, and he was maybe 75 yards from the field, sitting in a piece of grass by himself, like, just sitting there. That's heartbreaking. And he's like, grown now, you know what I mean? Like, he's six, six feet tall, he's 210, pounds, like he's a he's a grown ass man, like, and he's sitting there like he's four, and he couldn't find us in the mall, you know, and, oh, you're gonna

Tess 57:01
make me cry, Scott, that that's so sad. I have the image in my head.

Scott Benner 57:05
Oh, you should have it's that exact image. So now I'm looking at him, I'm 75 yards from him, and I'm going, I should go hug him, and then I'm like, I should leave him alone. And I didn't know what to do. And so would you do? I got out of his eye line, and I just watched him to make sure he was okay. Oh, and then I cried a little bit, and I wondered if he was crying, but he was too far away for me to know he wasn't. By the way, I know him better now i don't i He might not cry if he got shot, which is so weird because I'm crying now. Yeah, I'm close. And so he sat there 20 minutes, and then he just stood up and, like, kind of straightened up his uniform and fixed his hat and went back and sat in the dugout for the second game. Wow. And I was like, and I sat there and I watched that second game, but it was just the it was the craziest thing. So then we have to leave him like he's in college, like he's not coming home with us. So he went back to school. We went home, and I woke up incredibly early the next morning. I got my car and I drove and I don't know where I was going, but I ended up at his little league baseball field, and I sat in the stands and cried like a baby for like 20 minutes, and then I pulled myself together and got my car and left. And I have never been back to that field. Well, that's a lie. They asked me to come back and announce a game last year. I did it for the girls, but it was the first time I had been back there in years. I came home, I couldn't go inside, so I just started, like, pulling weeds outside, like, just doing the most random things outdoors. And my wife came out, and I couldn't make eye contact with her. I was just like, don't like, I can't like, not now, like, I just can't. So I was just really, and it's because you do this thing over and over again year after year, it feels like your life, right? No, it is, yeah. A couple years later, I don't think about it anymore. It's really interesting. Wow, I just all

Tess 59:07
four of mine play, um, oh, the girls play softball, and the boys play baseball. So we are at the ball fields constantly.

Scott Benner 59:14
Yeah, no, I have, like, freckles on my cheeks from sun like that I didn't have when I was younger. You know, like, it's I spent a lot of my life standing there, sitting there, walking back and forth from driving to I have one thing, like, on my desktop, I have the video of his last home run in college. Every once in a while, I'll just, like, click on it, let it run for 20 seconds, and then I just shut off. And that's it. I probably shouldn't. He should never know I do that. But

Tess 59:47
does he listen? I

Scott Benner 59:49
can't imagine. And he'll never know. My wife doesn't. I'm like, I'm like, did you hear that thing today? She goes where I'm like, on the pocket. She goes, I listen to your podcast. And I go, Okay, I. She's like, I get enough of you here. I was like, All right, what have we not talked about that we should have? I think that's about it. Yeah, yeah. How close are you to me? Close,

Tess 1:00:11
yeah, like, outside, outside of Baltimore. Oh, okay, yeah. In fact, we're in New Jersey all the time for baseball tournaments. You guys have a lot of baseball up there. We

Scott Benner 1:00:23
do. I tell I'll tell people a secret. During COVID. New Jersey ran college baseball for like, basically disenfranchised college players, because everybody got sent home. And oh, my son later told me he goes that summer. I played during COVID. He goes college, not college, anywhere else he goes. That's the base best baseball I ever played. And he didn't mean him, he meant the competition. Because what happened was, is all the players got sent home from college, but the kids who were really good didn't stop playing, and they all got together in this one league, and it was legit, like my son played on a team that year where he was in the outfield with three center fielders, one from Penn, one from Duke, one from his school, one from the next school. Like their starting pitcher was like, I think from North Carolina. They had a kid that was throwing for Duke out of the pen, like they were a d1 baseball team. They were crazy. It was like an all star team, and then you show up and play another all star team. It

Tess 1:01:27
was awesome. Wow, yeah, yeah, there's some great facilities up by you, for sure. It was the

Scott Benner 1:01:31
best baseball I ever saw, too, and everybody got better. It was pretty awesome. But he actually remarked he went back to college, and he was like, this is not nearly as good as that. Basically thrown together league I played in in um, during COVID. So, wow, it was weird. We all sat very far from each other. Even though we were outside, we didn't realize at that point that being outside kind of fixed it so. But anyway, this is really cool. What are your other kids play? Three of mine play ice hockey, which so expensive, isn't it? Yeah,

Tess 1:02:05
although my one daughter, who the only one who doesn't play ice hockey, found the sport that turns out to be more expensive than ice hockey. What is it? It is competitive, hip hop dance. What the hell

Scott Benner 1:02:21
not real. Is that real? It's real.

Tess 1:02:23
She doesn't like the other styles of dance, but she's really good at hip hop, which is funny, because my husband, I have no rhythm at all, not sure where she came from, but

Scott Benner 1:02:33
that's awesome. She's good at it travel. Why? What makes that expensive?

Tess 1:02:39
Choreography fees, costume fees, the traveling on the weekend, the competition, competition fees, the monthly fee of going to the classes, you know, four hours of class each week. Wow, it's pretty amazing. Older, congratulations, she did it.

Scott Benner 1:02:56
Yay. Is that a thing she can get into college for? I don't

Tess 1:02:59
know. I don't know much. We're two years into the dance world. It's a new world for me. Yeah, do

Scott Benner 1:03:05
you think any of your kids will play in college? Have you noticed it on them, like the 15 year olds, old enough that you could smell it on them a little bit now, right?

Tess 1:03:13
She she's a really good softball player. She plays ice hockey. I'm not sure about college. I don't know that she even wants to my, my 11 year old son, the type one diabetic. He's a really strong athlete, but he has not hit his growth spurt yet. So I'm hoping you know he's smaller. So he's got kids on his baseball team that have 3040, pounds on him, and they can, they could crush the ball. I mean, he for his size, he can hit, yeah, I'm waiting for him to get, get go through puberty, so that I can see what, we can see what he really does. Do you

Scott Benner 1:03:45
have his thyroid tested? Yeah, they test that, actually, I wrote it down. They test that, like once a year. They do blood work on them once a year. What's this? TSH, is that, is that? What would say, thyroid? Yeah, I don't give access to oh two, yeah, it's good. He's good. Yeah. I only asked because when Arden's thyroid was managed, well, she got I've said this before, but Arden was probably the smallest person in her school, and now she's five seven, wow, yeah, but that all came after her thyroid medication.

Tess 1:04:17
I wonder if kids like, if my son, I don't know how to explain it. Like, was his growth stunted, or his like, when he went undiagnosed for who knows how long, and now he's just behind, but eventually, like, maybe he'll catch up.

Scott Benner 1:04:31
Yeah, I don't know. Like, I don't know like, if art and his thyroid was always an issue and we just finally figured it out, or if it was an issue around the time she was going to grow, and then it kind of slowed her down. And then when we got it straight, she, you know, picked speed up speed again. I don't know,

Tess 1:04:48
yeah, although my husband, he's like, six three now, but he was always the shortest in his class, he said, through middle school, and then he grew like, three or four inches, like in one summer. But. Before he started his freshman year of high school. So maybe my son will just be later like him, yeah, but my other son's taller. He's almost as tall as my the eight year old's almost as tall as the 11 year

Scott Benner 1:05:10
old. How tall are you? I'm 43 Wait, you're 43 Yeah. How tall are you? Five, four on a good day. Okay? Because you I said, How tall are you? And you told me you were 43 and I was like, I don't understand. Is that metric? She went to Canada one time, and she's using the metric system now. I thought you said, How old are you? No, I recognize like, why is doing how old I am? I just want to say this. I had to drive through Baltimore two weekends ago during that horrible rainstorm, and I almost died. I'm not even kidding. We had to go get Arden stuff. I'll leave you with this. This seems to be a story episode, so I don't know if I said this on the podcast directly or not. Arden is not going to the Savannah College of Art and Design anymore, and so she came home after her sophomore year, and she said there are a number of reasons why, but I do not want to go back there at the top of her list were very poor teaching. That was her biggest complaint. She went into one of her core classes this year, and on the first day, the teacher said, I've never taught this before. I've never done it professionally. If you have questions, do not ask me. And then gave them a YouTube blank. So that didn't go well for her and many other people. And even though she ended up with a good grade, and like, figured her way through the grade, she did not, she doesn't have the skill. And she said, if I go back there without that skill, I will tumble behind very quickly. And she's like, and this is not like, an isolated problem. This one teacher, this place, is like, I've never seen something go downhill as quickly as I've seen this. I'm gonna leave. I'm gonna go back to my other option coming out of high school, and she's now, at the moment, like, signed up as a psychology major, but she's looking very closely at pre law and being an attorney someday. Okay, so she's off at a university doing that now, but she made that decision after she came home from Savannah, and her stuff was still in Savannah, so we hustled around. She got accepted to a couple of schools. We figured out which one that she wanted to go to, got her all set up in a very short amount of time over the summer, this was not easy, and then my father in law got sick and passed away right as we were going on our first family vacation in six years. And we had two weeks during that time to retrieve art and stuff out of her place where they were going to trash it, because we only had the place to a certain day. So we went on the vacation, buried my father in law came home, Arden got sick. She got strep throat. We doctored her up as best as we could, and then she and I drove down to Savannah and got her stuff. We drove Savannah and back, 1400 miles in about 48 hours. And so, gosh, and then we got home, and then we had four days to take her to the next school. So we're coming home from Savannah after all this, pretty exhausted, and though the skies just open up and we're about through DC, which is the worst, yep, you know, but, but we're, we're, we're in that gap there. We're coming up in the Baltimore DC thing. And as we're going through Baltimore and all that construction, you just can't see. And so I'm in the left lane at times. I One way I drove was there were light poles overhead on the left side. I think I was in like, the express lane, yes, and I couldn't see the curb or the or the lines or anything on the left like so I just, I lined the corner of my car up with the lights over my head, and I kept them on the corner of the car. And there was a ton of pressure, because Arden was behind me in a different car, driving. Oh, it's so, like, scary. She's just like, I crashed. She's following me because she doesn't know what. She can't see shit either, right? This goes on for hours, and then it finally stops, or it slows down enough and we're like, oh my god, I can't believe we're alive. Like, we stopped and, like, regrouped, and we were like, I can't believe we didn't crash. We were doing like, putting down our sun visors to limit our field of view so our eyes wouldn't get distracted by the rain, as much like we were using all these little like, internet tricks, staring at the road like it was really insane. Wow. And we drove about an hour or so, and it was all good. Then we got to the Delaware, which is that Delaware Memorial Bridge maybe, yeah, yep, and it's just crystal clear, as we're like, two miles off the bridge. And I called her, and I was like, hey, looks good. Like, let's speed back up and get home, because it was getting late, you know, I swear to God, as I hung up the phone, the sky opened up again, and by the time we were on the bridge, there was air. The wind was blowing. Everything was going sideways. The cars were getting pushed. We were going 15 miles an hour. There were standing. Water. People were giving up and pulling over. You could not see anything going over the bridge. But I called her, and I was like, Do you want to stop? And she goes, just keep going. Then I was like, Okay. I said, Can you see anything? She goes, I can see you. And I was like, Oh, great. So this is on me. And so, like, so we're going over the bridge. And she goes, whoa. And I'm like, what? She goes, I thought the car was gonna blow off the bridge. I was like, Okay, great. This went on for like, 45 minutes. It was insane. And you could, you couldn't see but just as I said to her the second time, I'm like, there's an exit coming up, like we got over the bridge. I'm like, do you want to get off the road? And she goes, I don't think this is ever going to stop. I think we should keep going. So we kept crawling along and crawling along. And then it just it ended. It was just over. And I called her back and I said, Is this gonna sound counterintuitive how I usually talk to you? I'm like, But drive as fast as you can. I was like, because I said, this is on our it's to the west of us. And I was like, and I think we have to beat it, or this is going to happen again. I actually think we're better off driving insanely fast than letting this rain get to us again. So then we raced the rain for like, the last hour back through New Jersey. It was really crazy. Sounds like a fun trip? It wasn't. I thought I literally, like, it was the first time in a while. I was like, Oh, this is it. This is I'm gonna die, and it's gonna be my fault that art and follows me right along into a concrete wall or something like that. Anyway, people are like, you could have pulled over. I was like, yeah, maybe Tess, thank you. I appreciate it. I like that you shared your story. I'm glad you found something that helps you. I didn't ask you if the podcast helped you with the kid, but it sounds like it did. So I didn't want to sound like a, you know, like I was like, fishing for a compliment. No,

Tess 1:11:43
it definitely did

Scott Benner 1:11:44
good. I'm glad. Can you say for like, was it bold beginnings? Was it Pro Tip series? Was it just hearing conversations like, quickly? What was the best for you?

Tess 1:11:55
Definitely the the bold beginnings and the Pro Tip series, just in the very beginning, just learning it all and just being like, No, I'm not going to be okay with a $300 I mean, 300 300 blood sugar. You know, Scott says if the blood sugar is high, it means you need more insulin. You know, we were given the typical, you know, don't give any corrections. You might stack the insulin. And it was time to just say, No, we're gonna I know enough now to take matters into my own hands, from what I learned from the podcast, to try and get a little bit better. You know, control over his diabetes,

Scott Benner 1:12:31
that really is the big deal is having the confidence to make adjustments, right? I think, like I think, that when it boils down to it, once you have the confidence to make adjustments, whether it's the settings or to blood sugars, that's kind of the beginning of your path of you know, like getting there. I'm glad it helped. I really am. Okay. Well, thank you so much. Can you hold on for one second? For me, Sure, thank you.

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